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Chapman Funeral
by rjhutchinson48＠gmail.com 22 Nov '23

22 Nov '23

Dear Colleagues, I am re-sending this as some folk apparently did not receive the earlier email below, and we have more information. Colleagues will remember the wonderful contribution given to ICAA by the Chapman’s over many years. The Chapmans who mostly lived in reginal Australia, and held that dynamic, were part of the backbone of ICAA, for many years. Nan was a great support to Mike who spent time as ICAA president, as well as a special time working with our colleagues in Timor Leste. We are grateful for the completed lives of Mike, Nan and Justin, and the gifts they brought to making the world a better place. Robyn with ICA Australasia CHAPMAN, Justin and Nancy. Our family is sad to announce the passing of Justin aged 59 on 16 October, 2023. Nancy passed away aged 87 after a short illness on 10 November, 2023 surrounded by family. Both will be deeply missed, always loved and never forgotten. We would like to thank everyone for their kindness and support during this difficult time. A Memorial Service will be held for Justin on 24 November at 10am. This Memorial event will be directly followed by another service at 11am for Justin’s mother, Nancy. The Services will take place in the Magnolia Chapel at the Macquarie Park Cemetery, Plassey Road, North Ryde. A reception with light refreshments will commence at 12.30pm in the adjacent Wallumatta Function Centre where we can continue to share memories of both Justin and Nancy celebrating the love they brought into our lives. Live streaming will be available for those who cannot attend the Memorial event in person. Please visit https://bit.ly/47DVAFs <https://streaming.naoca.com.au/e/d8b699a6-8a7d-41d4-9f7d-229cac65ce46> and enter PIN 7040 or contact Simplicity Funerals Balgowlah for details. <https://tributes.smh.com.au/obituaries/495106/justin-and-nancy-chapman/SMHC…> Dear colleagues, Ben has asked that we let you know that Nan Chapman passed away on 10th November after a short illness. Justin has also tragically passed away recently. Please feel free to share the link below to her & her son Justin’s memorial notice. There will also be a memorial service for Nancy at Club Mudgee at 10am on Wednesday, 29th November, the day before her 88th birthday. Warm regards, Thanks for your thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Ben https://tributes.smh.com.au/obituaries/495106/justin-and-nancy-chapman/?utm… <https://tributes.smh.com.au/obituaries/495106/justin-and-nancy-chapman/?utm…> &utm_medium=publicboard&utm_campaign=publication-share

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Notice of Ann Duffy's death and funeral service Friday 24 Nov
by RichardandMariaMaguire 20 Nov '23

20 Nov '23

Dear Colleagues, Family, friends and all of us in ICA Australia would like to let you know of the death of Ann Stuart Duffy (nee Dunlop) on 9th November 2023, shortly after her 90th birthday, in Sanctuary Point (South Coast NSW). Born on 26 October 1933 in the Sydney suburb of Cronulla by the ocean, Ann was an active member of her local church and as she grew, looked for new ways to put her beliefs into action. As Ann ventured into challenges posed by a post-war world, she was joined by Rob who shared her conviction. In 1956 they were married and together, despite their conventional appearance, continued to look for meaningful ways to act as people of faith in their local congregations. A dynamic team in work and in life, Ann and Rob listened to the Spirit and dared to heed God’s call upon their lives. They sought to be a living demonstration of non-judgemental love and, in 1970, joined the ICA with a mission to meaningfully share life’s abundant possibility with people of all ages, cultural backgrounds and circumstances, particularly the poor and marginalised, in Australia and overseas. Ann embraced the opportunities the ICA offered and undertook many roles across the globe; from community engagement in Vogar Canada at Lake Manitoba to Nam Wai in Hongkong to leading planning workshops (LENS) across Asia to development circuits along the east coast of America to “permeation” assignment in Sydney. Ann’s commitment to a life of faith also saw her face many deep challenges; these included the inner conflict between being an active part in the ICA’s global mission for human development and her need to nurture her four children while living in intentional community. Rob’s death in 2016, after almost 60 years of marriage, was also a time of deep struggle and her own deteriorating health followed. Despite this, Ann's faith shone through and she was cared for by her children Paul, Linda and David, daughter-in-law Brenda as well as by her four grandsons. They all looked after her at home until the very end. With many people here and around the world, we give thanks for Ann’s amazing completed life of awakening and service on behalf of all and for our common future. Her memorial service will take place at the St George’s Basin Uniting Church, 7 Meriton Street on Friday 24th November 2023 at 11:00am followed by a committal at the Shoalhaven Crematorium in Worrigee, on Worrigee Road at 1:00pm. The committal will be live-streamed *here <https://murphyfamilyfunerals.com.au/tribute/details/1572/Ann-Duffy-nee-Dunl…>.* For more information, including a photo of Ann and lifetream access see the website of Murphy Family Funerals: https://murphyfamilyfunerals.com.au/tribute/details/1572/Ann-Duffy-nee-Dunl… <https://murphyfamilyfunerals.com.au>, where you will also find the live-stream. Donations can be made for Bush Heritage Australia. With admiration and gratitude, David Duffy and Maria Maguire

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Frank Knutson’s Passing Last Night
by Linda Hamilton 20 Nov '23

20 Nov '23

Not sure i had the correct email address so apologize if i am sending twice. Kyle Knutson, Frank Knutson’s son in Dallas area, where Frank has been living with his family, called this morning to say Frank journeyed on just after midnight last night. Sent from my iPad

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Fwd: Fw: [People vs. Fossil Fuels] Human Connection and Social Change
by Sunny Walker 18 Nov '23

18 Nov '23

>From a climate colleague in Denver. Reading it, I forgot the source and thought it was on of you, so many poets. Sunny Walker, Certified Professional Facilitator | Emeritus Certified ToP Facilitator ToP Mentor Trainer 303-587-3017 sunny(a)virtualfacilitationcollaborative.com ---------- Forwarded message --------- From: Jesse/Fran Aguirre <jaguirrejja(a)aol.com> Date: Sat, Nov 18, 2023, 6:54 PM Subject: Fw: [People vs. Fossil Fuels] Human Connection and Social Change Thinking of all of you as I read and pass on this poem, etc. Fran Aguirre ----- Forwarded Message ----- *Subject:* [People vs. Fossil Fuels] Human Connection and Social Change https://tedglick.com/2023/11/18/human-connection-and-social-change/ Future Hope column, November 18, 2023 Human Connection and Social Change By Ted Glick Standing on a corner, alone, in the early morning half-dark, half-light, You, waiting for the commuter bus to take you to the Big Apple, Me, on one of my 3/4 times a week long distance bike rides, approaching you, 30-20-10 feet away, And our eyes meet, followed a second or two later by a smile, an involuntary acknowledgement, you to me and vice-versa, that though we don’t know each other and may never see each other again, Today, this morning, for literally one second, we felt the warmth, the quiet joy, the reassurance of human connection. I wrote this poem in 2016. I was reminded of it by something which happened yesterday morning. I’ve been sick for a week and a half, needing to stay home and concentrate on trying to get well. I felt pressure to do so not just because I didn’t feel good and couldn’t do much work but because of a public event that happened two days ago, Thursday. At this event I was the only performer, singing/leading six songs, reading poetry, and reading excerpts from my two books published in 2020 and 2021. Fortunately, I recovered enough to make the event, and based on the input I got from those in attendance I did a pretty good job of it. But I was disappointed that more people weren’t there. I was also feeling anxiety about Israel’s genocidal destruction of Gaza and the state of the world generally. So when I went out early the next morning to look for the newspaper which is delivered to our house, I was not in good spirits at all. The paper wasn’t there, but as I took in the morning sunset across the street for a minute, up pulls a car and someone gets out of it. It was the newspaper deliveryman. He walked over, put out his hand and gave me the paper, and we spoke very briefly, me asking about his family, he telling me to give his best wishes to my wife, with whom he has talked in the past. As he went back to his car and I turned to walk back into my house, I felt very noticeably different. Instead of being down and anxious, I felt good, felt like something very small but very important had just happened. Something very similar to this happened <https://tedglick.com/2022/06/21/a-very-special-human-being/> a few years ago with a crossing guard who we knew bringing our paper to me as I pulled into the driveway on my bike after one of my early morning rides. What is it about human connection, friendly interaction with others, that can have such an immediate positive impact? Clearly, it’s something about the way that we are constructed with all our feelings and anxieties and hopes and fears. That “something” can be found in almost every human being, based on my experience and readings. All of us, whatever our other deficiencies, need friendly human contact. How does this relate to the continuing, urgently-needed, historic process of positive social change? Think about it this way: anyone who has done organizing knows that a situation where you are able to talk with someone else with some friendliness or even just basic mutual respect is going to be much more conducive to positive discussion than a situation of open disrespect or hostility. It’s not that a conflictual interaction can’t in some cases ultimately lead to positive personal and idea-change, but it’s harder, and definitely less productive numerically as far as results. To me, this is common sense, but for too many revolutionaries in the past and still some today, it’s not. Some, I’m sure, would see these views as too “liberal,” not tough enough to fight the power. I don’t think so. And here’s some back-up, via one of Che Guevera’s most famous sayings: “At the risk of seeming ridiculous, let me say that the true revolutionary is guided by a great feeling of love. It is impossible to think of a genuine revolutionary lacking this quality.” Yes, yes, yes. *Ted Glick has been a progressive activist, organizer and writer since 1968. He is the author of the recently published books, Burglar for Peace and 21**st** Century Revolution. More info can be found at * *https://tedglick.com* <https://tedglick.com/>*. * <http://www.avg.com/email-signature?utm_medium=email&utm_source=link&utm_cam…> Virus-free.www.avg.com <http://www.avg.com/email-signature?utm_medium=email&utm_source=link&utm_cam…> <#m_4922571423820191429_DAB4FAD8-2DD7-40BB-A1B8-4E2AA1F9FDF2> -- We're organizing to end the era of fossil fuel production, protect communities from the climate emergency, and repair the harm caused by fossil fuels. President Biden must declare a climate emergency and stop the federal approval of all new fossil fuel projects. Visit peoplevsfossilfuels.org for more. ---

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Re: [Oe List ...] Celebrating the Completed Life of Sandra Lynne Rafos
by jonzondo＠juno.com 18 Nov '23

18 Nov '23

I so appreciate the Rafos family. So I send my love, and light a candle for Sandra and the whole familyWe are all connected.Jon Mark Elizondo Dear Sharon, Kim, and Robin Rafos and family, Thank you for sharing that Sandra was with her daughters at home and is dancing with your father in heaven. Great pictures you shared of her! Thank you! When our paths crossed in Kenya, she was not afraid to speak her mind and always gave helpful suggestions to me in child rearing, working in the field, and always had a warm smile to greet us when we returned to Nairobi. May peace be with you always, Evelyn Kurihara Philbrook, ICA Taiwan in Evanston, IL visiting family. > On Nov 17, 2023, at 8:45 PM, Sharon Rafos via OE <oe(a)lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote: > > It is with deep sadness that we report that our Mother, Sandra Lynne Rafos, passed away Monday, November 13, 2023. She died peacefully at home with her daughters Kim, Sharon and Robin by her side. She lived an amazing and spirited life. No doubt she is dancing in heaven with our Father. May they walk together, reunited in peace. > > Sandra Lynne Rafos Obituary <https://www.canalefuneral.com/obituaries/SANDRA-LYNNE-RAFOS?obId=29923771> > > > In peace and prayer, > > Sharon Rafos > -- > > srafos(a)gmail.com <mailto:srafos@gmail.com> > (231) 340-0634 > > > _______________________________________________ > OE mailing list > OE(a)lists.wedgeblade.net > http://lists.wedgeblade.net/listinfo.cgi/oe-wedgeblade.net

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Re: [Oe List ...] Celebrating the Completed Life of Sandra Lynne Rafos
by Isobel and Jim 17 Nov '23

17 Nov '23

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Re: [Oe List ...] Celebrating the Completed Life of Sandra Lynne Rafos
by Isobel and Jim 17 Nov '23

17 Nov '23

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Virtual Memorial Service for David Rebstock
by Karen Snyder 13 Nov '23

13 Nov '23

> The Rebstock Family invite you to join them at the Celebration of Life Service for David on December 9 at 11:00 CST. RSVP below to receive a zoom link. > > From: Mark Rebstock <mrebstock(a)gmail.com> > Subject: Virtual Memorial Service for David Rebstock > Date: November 13, 2023 at 9:57:01 PM CST > Cc: "David & Ellen Rebstock" <grapevin2(a)gmail.com> > > CELEBRATION OF LIFE SERVICE > HOSTED BY THE REBSTOCK FAMILY & > PEACE CHURCH UCC- ROCHESTER, MN > Please join us for a virtual service to honor the memory of David Milton Rebstock. > > SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9 > 11:00AM CST > > Please RSVP here. <https://forms.gle/wXc92x834aBnSYfaA> > > A Zoom link for the service will be emailed to you within 24 hours. > Please email mrebstock(a)gmail.com <mailto:mrebstock@gmail.com> with any questions.

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Celebrating the Life of Elaine Telford
by Lynda C 12 Nov '23

12 Nov '23

[IMG_0443.jpg] Banner for Reconciling Work in to New South Wales, Australia. Elaine 2nd from right. Sent from my iPhone

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Spirit essense
by mary hampton 11 Nov '23

11 Nov '23

November10, 2023 Dear colleagues and friends of the spirit, Thank yous to Randy Williams and Cheryl Hood. I am not a musician. I live with one. Stuart has accelerated his musical interests since retirement. He goes out to play three times a week and those are just the group rehearsals. (He participates with penny whistles, voice, tenor guitar, guitalele, and ukelele.) In addition, he joins in public performances, regular on-line and in-person jam sessions. Our dog, Daisy, and I benefit from frequent practice concerts. I consider myself a semi-groupie. I enjoyed listening with something else in hand to do (a book, embroidery, keeping time, talking). My mother used to quote the Biblical “make a joyful noise” as to what she, and I, were called to do. I have been told shut up in sing-a-longs before now. To quote the native American reflecting on William Penn’s speech, “ I love to hear where the words come from”. My first hint at appreciating instrumental music was the introduction to “Fantasia”, “picture action going on to this sound”. Sung words, multimedia presentations and drama speak to me. I dance twice a week for exercise and joy. The music for this almost always has words from “I love me” to “we are made of what the stars are made of”. My almost-guilty pleasure is listening to the “Sunday Morning Gospel Hour” while driving to Quaker Meeting. And I have other interests which, as best I can tell, may meet the same needs in my life. I am a reader. I am a journal writer/illustrator doing “Art Journalling” for the past five years. I am involved in family and friends/Friends caregiving. And I find Quaker Worship, Meeting for Worship with Attention to Business, and our Committee work lifegiving. What pleasures and tasks sustain you? Mary Hampton

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