[Dialogue] And another . . .

Mary D'Souza marykdsouza at gmail.com
Sun Dec 16 03:58:32 PST 2012


Cynthia connecting the Sandy Hook situation to wars is an important
connection.

Wars have not brought me to my knees as the Sandy Hook situation has. Wars
are outrageous too.
We soak our selves comfortably in the pool of stories that is getting
hotter and hotter (more disconnected and hiding of greed) and our
conscience is dead.

Community conversations are important.

Community connections are important.

Community projects are important.

We are with you in deep supplication for wisdom and care,
Mary





On Sun, Dec 16, 2012 at 8:11 AM, James Wiegel <jfwiegel at yahoo.com> wrote:

> Cynthia Vance <https://www.facebook.com/cynthia.vance1>
> In light of Sandy Hook and other recent mass killings and football players
> on steroids killing women. The women of the world need to TAKE OVER, pass
> laws to ban steroid injections for men, but instead inject estrogen into
> every male alive. Let's get rid of testosterone-driven men. No more
> killing, no more war, also no more uncontrolled (on steroids) men out of
> control.
>
>
> Jim Wiegel
>
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> Kazantzakis
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> --- On *Sat, 12/15/12, James Wiegel <jfwiegel at yahoo.com>* wrote:
>
>
> From: James Wiegel <jfwiegel at yahoo.com>
> Subject: [Dialogue] Another angle on the brainstorm . . .
> To: "Colleague Dialogue" <dialogue at lists.wedgeblade.net>
> Date: Saturday, December 15, 2012, 5:30 PM
>
> Morgan Freeman's statement about these random shootings....
>
> "You want to know why. This may sound cynical, but here's why.
>
> It's because of the way the media reports it. Flip on the news and watch
> how we treat the Batman theater shooter and the Oregon mall shooter like
> celebrities. Dylan Klebold and Eric Harris are ho
> usehold names, but do you kn
> ow the name of a single victim of Columbine? Disturbed people who would
> otherwise just off themselves in their basements see the news and want to
> top it by doing something worse, and going out in a memorable way. Why a
> grade school? Why children? Because he'll be remembered as a horrible
> monster, instead of a sad nobody.
>
> CNN's article says that if the body count "holds up", this will rank as
> the second deadliest shooting behind Virginia Tech, as if statistics
> somehow make one shooting worse than another. Then they post a video
> interview of third-graders for all the details of what they saw and heard
> while the shootings were happening. Fox News has plastered the killer's
> face on all their reports for hours. Any articles or news stories yet that
> focus on the victims and ignore the killer's identity? None that I've seen
> yet. Because they don't sell. So congratulations, sensationalist media,
> you've just lit the fire for someone to top this and knock off a day care
> center or a maternity ward next.
>
> You can help by forgetting you ever read this man's name, and remembering
> the name of at least one victim. You can help by donating to mental health
> research instead of pointing to gun control as the problem."
>
>
> Jim Wiegel
>
> ". . . In this whole world i don't know a more sly, more cunning, useful
> virtue than sheer dizzy pluck!" The Odyssey A Modern Sequel. Nikos
> Kazantzakis
>
>
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> --- On *Sat, 12/15/12, Marianna Bailey <wmbailey at charter.net>* wrote:
>
>
> From: Marianna Bailey <wmbailey at charter.net>
> Subject: Re: [Dialogue] Guns
> To: "Colleague Dialogue" <dialogue at lists.wedgeblade.net>
> Date: Saturday, December 15, 2012, 5:09 PM
>
> That would be great to have 5,000 person (or more) discourse on creating
> safe communities. I'm wondering what would be a good "vision" question to
> start the conversation.
> On Dec 15, 2012, at 5:20 PM, Wilson Priscilla wrote:
>
> Does anyone know Carolyn J. Lukensmeyer...who founded and was the
> president of America*Speaks.* She is now Executive Director of the
> National Institute for Civil Discourse at the University of Arizona.
> America*Speaks* led a 5,000 person Town Meeting discourse in NYC when the
> plans first came out for rebuilding Ground Zero.
> I was a table facilitator...and quite impressed with the folks they
> managed to reach.
> Talking with her about a "national" sponsor might produce something.
>
> I think the conversation about needing ways to pull together TM type
> events in multiple locations makes sense.
> All of this after the continuing dialogue here...but it needs to go beyond
> that.
> Priscilla Wilson
>
>
> On Dec 15, 2012, at 4:00 PM, Jack Gilles wrote:
>
> Marianna,
>
> TM would be good but you need a "national" sponsor. The World Cate process
> I think would be easier to do and for this might work better.
>
> Jack
>
> Sent from my iPad
>
> On Dec 15, 2012, at 3:35 PM, Marianna Bailey <wmbailey at charter.net> wrote:
>
> What about "Town Meetings" ? A 2 hour workshop designed for a community to
> solve the problem of guns in the community. We need to "brainstorm"
>  organizations that could sponsor the workshops.
> Marianna
> On Dec 15, 2012, at 4:15 PM, Jack Gilles wrote:
>
> John,
>
> I like your thinking and the tactics. Your "tiger" strategy really shifts
> the thinking. Perhaps having a traveling forum with justice department
> people, gun advocates, local law officials and a way for the local people
> to speak (tables of five or so) and present a question or suggestion from
> each table. Go to 10 or 15 locations. All of this telecast by PBS with call
> in and perhaps 'vote graphs' for affirming ideas. Keep it before the larger
> picture and audience. Affirm the second amendment, but stress safety,
> accountability and public health & safety.
>
> Jack
>
> Sent from my iPad
>
> On Dec 15, 2012, at 2:34 PM, "jlepps at pc.jaring.my" <jlepps at pc.jaring.my>
> wrote:
>
> Thanks, Lee, for starting this conversation, and for all the
> contributions. Here's my two cents:
>
> *I. CONTEXT
> *I grew up in a home where guns were part of the normal possessions. I've
> owned a BB, a 22, a 410, and a couple of 12-gage shotguns (though I never
> was a hunter). Dad, my brother and I all participated in skeet shooting as
> a hobby, and spent many hours loading shotgun shells for re-use at the
> range. There was plenty of safety training, both at home and through Boy
> Scouts. Then in my brief stint with the Army, I earned a sharpshooter medal
> on the rifle range and learned a lot about the M-1 (major learning: don't
> point it at anything you don't intend to kill).
>
> For the past 20+ years I have lived in Malaysia where it is a capital
> offense to own a gun or a bullet, and people have been sent to the gallows
> for the possession of a single bullet. Occasionally criminals have been
> found to possess guns -- usually after they've been shot dead by the
> police. Criminals still function, but usually with machetes.
>
> So my personal relation to the issue has some ambiguity.
>
> One other bit of context: We DID succeed with the smoking issue, and that
> was QUITE a cultural transformation. It's not impossible.
>
> *II. IDEAS
> *In addition to the analysis recommended by Randy & Jack, it seems to me
> some strategic thinking is in order, and a very appropriate way to begin is
> with the Chinese strategem, *"Lure the Tiger out of the mountains."* The
> insight is, if you go tiger hunting, don't do it on the tiger's home turf.
> That's a strategy for getting eaten! You lure the tiger onto your home
> turf. Put another way, make it an advantage for the enemy to agree with you.
>
> Of course identifying the tiger in this situation is complex. Is it the
> NRA or gun-owners or the firearms industry? Probably all of the above.
>
> So in this case the "tiger bait" might be inviting a debate around the
> theme of protecting your home & family. One of the arguments from
> proponents of guns is to provide protection against burglars & other
> intruders. The rational "hook" in the bait would be to compare statistics
> of those who've wounded or killed burglars vs those who've been
> accidentally killed or otherwise murdered with abundant guns. I'm guessing
> that the statistics would be around 1,000 to 1. But rationality never
> convinces anyone, though it can disclose the fallacy of an argument.
>
> To this, we might add the proposition that all newly built homes are
> required to have a burglar alarm system installed and connected to the
> police station. Existing homes could be retro-fitted (with a tax
> incentive.- similar to the solar energy incentive, this one creatively
> named "Home Protection System." Think of the jobs!)
>
> Another part of the strategy is to make it disadvantageous to oppose gun
> control. That's what happened when schoolchildren began hassling parents
> who were smokers. What if school curricula had a module that pointed out
> the crudity and danger of guns? Then kids might, instead of  playing
> gun-games, become advocates of no-gun games. (In addition to my
> previously-mentioned firearm collection, I also had a couple of fine cap
> pistols!)
>
> In terms of regulation, perhaps there might be licenses for hunting
> (already, but add a license for the gun(s) used); license for skeet
> shooting, and a license for home protection. The latter would be issued
> with the purchase of the gun, and a locked container to secure it with a
> complicated combination.  Of course there needs to be a ban on civilian
> ownership of assault weapons and multi-shot magazines. These regulations
> simply make it more inconvenient for gun users to operate.
>
> In addition to licenses, it might be interesting to require purchasers of
> guns to be enrolled in a "citizen's militia" (the Constitution says that is
> the basis for the right to bear arms) run by the NRA & local police and
> conducting required training in safety in use of firearms. The unit might
> even develop drill teams and perform at sports events! Take a look at this
> as what a good drill team can look like:
> http://sorisomail.com/email/16993/exibicao-de-banda-militar--um-espectaculo-imperdivel.html
>
> Maybe that would make it easier for the "tigers" to agree. Still it will
> take some doing -- maybe even some pilot projects (God forbid!).
>
> Anyway brainstorms are meant to generate ideas.
>
> Of course the cries for increased mental health need to be implemented.
> Those strategies are long range and necessary.
>
> John
>
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