Great, Paul On Fri, May 1, 2020 at 2:08 AM PAUL SCHRIJNEN via OE < oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
We could make it a group exercise: Step 1: Agree what we mean by an obituary. Step 2: hang flip charts with the name of each person on the walls of the room Step 3: we all go around write down the three essential qualities of this person. Step 4: in groups of 3, agree on the 3-4 essential qualities Step 5: go around and write anecdotes underneath those qualities Step 6: find poetry, songs, art forms that come to mind when thinking of this person. Step 7: Share with great generosity of spirit in a large zoom gathering
How does that sound?
Paul
On 1 May 2020, at 03:51, James Wiegel via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
So, I am part of this last chapter group and I am supposed to draft an obituary for myself by May 15. Any suggestions?
Jim Wiegel
“We are all time travelers journeying into the future. But let us make that future a place we want to visit. “ — Stephen Hawkings
On Apr 30, 2020, at 7:01 PM, Mari Crocker via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
Just checking in to give thanks for the efforts OE/ICA has made to memorialize the saints of our Order and Movement, like Charles Hahn and others. Personally, I loved the obituary entry the Hahn family offered for Charles — it seemed to embody this wonderful man’s long — before and after ICA — relations with the world, far beyond his important service in so many Global nexus (nexi ?) or the various campaigns many of us may or may not remember.
I also agree with Zoe — for so many of US in the order — to think of or remember Charles, is to think of and remember Doris — and Marcia and Shelly. When I think of Zoe Barley, I always think of Ken and Kristin and Gwen — in Malaysia and ……. We were a FAMILY order, not only a 501c3 non-profit corporation called the EI and later the ICA.
I am still blessed with living independently and caring for my 92-year old husband, Joe, who has advanced dementia. Our nearly 53 years of married life were deeply enriched by our 22 years as members of the OE. But I hope when the ICA, in its loving and kind efforts to “remember Those Who Care” move to write a piece on either Joe or me, they will check out the script with whichever of us is still alive and astute, or with our sons, such that far more than a programmatic run down is offered. I say that because any or all the assignments across the globe any of us might have met and fulfilled finally mean very little, especially as an Order whose members were committed to be the "Nobodies.” The way we have embodied the NRM, the 144s, the Profound Humanness, the Other World, etc. not easily documented, will be far more important to the future of Planet Earth.
Just my two cents.
Grace, peace and love, Marilyn
On Apr 30, 2020, at 8:33 PM, Ken Fisher via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
To my fellow men,
I have acted as a lone-ranger from to time, but in truth, every erg of effectivity from my own initiative is in resonance with accompanying energies. For me, that has never been more true than my being with in love with Patricia for the past 10 years. How can that be acknowledged in paying tribute to a life fully lived? Let’s find the poetry.
In warmth and light,
Ken
On Apr 30, 2020, at 8:18 PM, Isobel and Jim Bishop via OE < oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
Thank you Zoe for being so wise in saying what I also noticed, with puzzlement and sadness.
My gratitude and appreciation to you Zoe, and also to you Sarah.
Grace is yours and peace,
Isobel Bishop.
Isobel and Jim Bishop isobeljimbish@optusnet.com.au
On 1 May 2020, at 2:24 am, Zoe Barley via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
I do hesitate to say anything that can seem critical - but . . . Both John Singleton and Charles Hahn are very good friends. Neither undertook their Order life alone. Neither would have been able to accomplish what they did alone. Both had strong wives/partners without whom their lives would have been quite different. John would never have gone to Africa without Louise having done the work she did first. The two obituaries leave me very sad that the richness of these two lives is missing.
Zoe Barley
-----Original Message----- From: Richard Alton via OE Sent: Apr 29, 2020 10:09 AM To: Colleague Dialogue , Order Ecumenical Community Cc: Richard Alton Subject: [Oe List ...] The Last Chapter- John Singleton
*An ICA Tribute to John Singleton* In the face of great loss, no words convey the sadness we feel for those who loved John Singleton. Yet we dare to say Death is neither a curse nor a blessing, an end or a beginning, but only that it is a wondrous, frightening and redemptive reality. It is a step into the Unknown Unknown. It is sacred, and it is good. Even though Death is universal, it is also unique---because every life is unrepeatable. It arrives in its own time and is always shocking, even when it is anticipated. It can be painful or peaceful, timely or not, tragic or strangely welcome, or all of the above at once. We don’t choose the manner or the moment and can only respond by acknowledging its finality and trusting what was, is and will be. We go on. Whether you celebrate death as a Home Going or as a finality that prevents you from being with your loved one physically, acknowledging death is important. We accompany you in your grief. We pray for you in your journey. We hope for your experience of being accompanied by the Divine Spirit. May it sustain you in your sorrow. Our hearts are with you. We are grateful for what we learned and how our lives were enriched because of the unique life of John Singleton. We offer here our appreciation for the contributions he made to the life and work of the Ecumenical Institute/ICA. As a representative of the Institute of Cultural Affairs I would like to hold up and celebrate the unique contribution of John Singleton’s to the work of the Institute:
John participated in the Institute work in the Local Church Experiment with a cluster of Denver churches and particularly at Montview Boulevard Presbyterian Church. The focus was on lay leadership to bring intentionality to the church’s role as mission to the world.
John also worked with the Institute in Africa designing a community-based program to combat HIV/AIDS first in Ghana in 2002. This was during a time that Africa was the epicenter of the HIV/AIDS epidemic. John was part of a team to visit hospitals and clinics and document the Ghanaian health system response to HIV/AIDS. Later John would go to Uganda to help launch the Institute's Community based HIV/AIDS program to empower and enable communities to challenge HIV/AIDS.
The Institute would like to celebrate John’s life and his unique contribution to caring for this planet and being part of the People of Care.
Death is an experience that each and every living creature will finally experience. However, we also understand that every single life is unique and unrepeatable, and, therefore, today we come to acknowledge a very unique death. There has been no death like the death of John Singleton and no life such as the unique and unrepeatable life of John Singleton. What he did and what he was will never be repeated again.
John Singleton died February 3, 2020
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