Dear Friends, Here I am on a lovely, cool Sunday morning after 30 minutes in a very weedy patch of garden. My energy following surgery 13 days ago is limited so 30 minutes was enough. The surgery went well, the tumor was encapsulated and removed along with the kidney and ureter. No pain and little discomfort which was minimal with ibuprofen, no heavy drugs after the surgery. So I'm on a healing path with no chemo or radiation, only observation. every 6 months for a while. My elder son Bob is with me taking his special "Mom Care" time, each of my 3 adult children have been great caregivers, times to share old an new stories. Of course, my community neighbors step in to fill the gaps til now when I can do most of the own personal care. Pacing is a hard thing to learn? " I could just do this one thing more" is easy to say, right? The Rite of Passage Journeys programs are in full swing for the summer. You might be interested in their new website to be found at "Rite of Passage Journeys.Org". We welcomed back the first program of the season, the Leadership Intensive that is training youth mentors from across the country. The experiences of the trainers are always wonder-filled and deep, so good to sit in circle with them as they shared the wonder and the difficult challenges they've faced and continue to face in an uncharted future. Working with youth brought them together and created a 2 week community, one they will hold forever. As they came together in a community hug, I could tell none of them were ready to let go. Of course, by evening, the group had already dispersed as reality presented itself. Being held as an significant elder in this group and others makes my aging heart soar! Showing up with an open heart and mind along with hugs is what they ask of me. What more could I ask for? I having a great time connecting with John Burbidge, reading chapters of a possible book. His experiences are phenomenal, his writing terrific! I'm reminded again what a common name John seems to be when born in Australia. I met only 5 Johns my first week there back in 2014. And such sweet gentle, kind souls! My grand son Noah and fiance Carla will be here soon. I'll close by hoping you are finding joy 🦋 in each day as well as the challenges that life brings. Remember you are loved! ❤️ Nancy
So very glad to hear that all is still going well! See you in July. Martha
On Jun 16, 2019, at 12:51 PM, Nancy Lanphear via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
Dear Friends, Here I am on a lovely, cool Sunday morning after 30 minutes in a very weedy patch of garden. My energy following surgery 13 days ago is limited so 30 minutes was enough. The surgery went well, the tumor was encapsulated and removed along with the kidney and ureter. No pain and little discomfort which was minimal with ibuprofen, no heavy drugs after the surgery. So I'm on a healing path with no chemo or radiation, only observation. every 6 months for a while. My elder son Bob is with me taking his special "Mom Care" time, each of my 3 adult children have been great caregivers, times to share old an new stories. Of course, my community neighbors step in to fill the gaps til now when I can do most of the own personal care. Pacing is a hard thing to learn? " I could just do this one thing more" is easy to say, right? The Rite of Passage Journeys programs are in full swing for the summer. You might be interested in their new website to be found at "Rite of Passage Journeys.Org". We welcomed back the first program of the season, the Leadership Intensive that is training youth mentors from across the country. The experiences of the trainers are always wonder-filled and deep, so good to sit in circle with them as they shared the wonder and the difficult challenges they've faced and continue to face in an uncharted future. Working with youth brought them together and created a 2 week community, one they will hold forever. As they came together in a community hug, I could tell none of them were ready to let go. Of course, by evening, the group had already dispersed as reality presented itself. Being held as an significant elder in this group and others makes my aging heart soar! Showing up with an open heart and mind along with hugs is what they ask of me. What more could I ask for? I having a great time connecting with John Burbidge, reading chapters of a possible book. His experiences are phenomenal, his writing terrific! I'm reminded again what a common name John seems to be when born in Australia. I met only 5 Johns my first week there back in 2014. And such sweet gentle, kind souls! My grand son Noah and fiance Carla will be here soon. I'll close by hoping you are finding joy 🦋 in each day as well as the challenges that life brings. Remember you are loved! ❤️ Nancy
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Dear Nancy, You are amazing! I always breathe a deep sigh of relief and am so grateful when dear ones make it through the health care systems successfully, after hearing so many horror stories about some of the shortcomings! Know that you and your caregivers are in our hearts and prayers as you move forward on your healing journey. Much love to you all. Gail and Dick On Mon, Jun 17, 2019 at 3:20 AM Nancy Lanphear via OE < oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
Dear Friends, Here I am on a lovely, cool Sunday morning after 30 minutes in a very weedy patch of garden. My energy following surgery 13 days ago is limited so 30 minutes was enough. The surgery went well, the tumor was encapsulated and removed along with the kidney and ureter. No pain and little discomfort which was minimal with ibuprofen, no heavy drugs after the surgery. So I'm on a healing path with no chemo or radiation, only observation. every 6 months for a while. My elder son Bob is with me taking his special "Mom Care" time, each of my 3 adult children have been great caregivers, times to share old an new stories. Of course, my community neighbors step in to fill the gaps til now when I can do most of the own personal care. Pacing is a hard thing to learn? " I could just do this one thing more" is easy to say, right? The Rite of Passage Journeys programs are in full swing for the summer. You might be interested in their new website to be found at "Rite of Passage Journeys.Org". We welcomed back the first program of the season, the Leadership Intensive that is training youth mentors from across the country. The experiences of the trainers are always wonder-filled and deep, so good to sit in circle with them as they shared the wonder and the difficult challenges they've faced and continue to face in an uncharted future. Working with youth brought them together and created a 2 week community, one they will hold forever. As they came together in a community hug, I could tell none of them were ready to let go. Of course, by evening, the group had already dispersed as reality presented itself. Being held as an significant elder in this group and others makes my aging heart soar! Showing up with an open heart and mind along with hugs is what they ask of me. What more could I ask for? I having a great time connecting with John Burbidge, reading chapters of a possible book. His experiences are phenomenal, his writing terrific! I'm reminded again what a common name John seems to be when born in Australia. I met only 5 Johns my first week there back in 2014. And such sweet gentle, kind souls! My grand son Noah and fiance Carla will be here soon. I'll close by hoping you are finding joy 🦋 in each day as well as the challenges that life brings. Remember you are loved! ❤️ Nancy
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Dear Nancy, Hope your days of recovery are filled with comfort and ease while surrounded in mission and love. May your brief time spent in the garden bring sweet contemplation and joy. Dawn Collins We love the Creator/Source/Spirit because the Spirit/Source/Creator loved us first.- 1 John 4:19 On Monday, June 17, 2019, 12:38:13 AM MDT, Gail West via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote: Dear Nancy, You are amazing! I always breathe a deep sigh of relief and am so grateful when dear ones make it through the health care systems successfully, after hearing so many horror stories about some of the shortcomings! Know that you and your caregivers are in our hearts and prayers as you move forward on your healing journey. Much love to you all. Gail and Dick On Mon, Jun 17, 2019 at 3:20 AM Nancy Lanphear via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote: Dear Friends, Here I am on a lovely, cool Sunday morning after 30 minutes in a very weedy patch of garden. My energy following surgery 13 days ago is limited so 30 minutes was enough. The surgery went well, the tumor was encapsulated and removed along with the kidney and ureter. No pain and little discomfort which was minimal with ibuprofen, no heavy drugs after the surgery. So I'm on a healing path with no chemo or radiation, only observation. every 6 months for a while. My elder son Bob is with me taking his special "Mom Care" time, each of my 3 adult children have been great caregivers, times to share old an new stories. Of course, my community neighbors step in to fill the gaps til now when I can do most of the own personal care. Pacing is a hard thing to learn? " I could just do this one thing more" is easy to say, right? The Rite of Passage Journeys programs are in full swing for the summer. You might be interested in their new website to be found at "Rite of Passage Journeys.Org". We welcomed back the first program of the season, the Leadership Intensive that is training youth mentors from across the country. The experiences of the trainers are always wonder-filled and deep, so good to sit in circle with them as they shared the wonder and the difficult challenges they've faced and continue to face in an uncharted future. Working with youth brought them together and created a 2 week community, one they will hold forever. As they came together in a community hug, I could tell none of them were ready to let go. Of course, by evening, the group had already dispersed as reality presented itself. Being held as an significant elder in this group and others makes my aging heart soar! Showing up with an open heart and mind along with hugs is what they ask of me. What more could I ask for? I having a great time connecting with John Burbidge, reading chapters of a possible book. His experiences are phenomenal, his writing terrific! I'm reminded again what a common name John seems to be when born in Australia. I met only 5 Johns my first week there back in 2014. And such sweet gentle, kind souls! My grand son Noah and fiance Carla will be here soon. I'll close by hoping you are finding joy 🦋 in each day as well as the challenges that life brings. Remember you are loved! ❤️ Nancy _______________________________________________ OE mailing list OE@lists.wedgeblade.net http://lists.wedgeblade.net/listinfo.cgi/oe-wedgeblade.net -- Gail West, ICA 3F, No. 12, Lane 5, Tien Mou W Rd Taipei, Taiwan 111 Ph) 8862) 2871-3150 email) icataiw@gmail.com Skype) gwestica www.icatw.com_______________________________________________ OE mailing list OE@lists.wedgeblade.net http://lists.wedgeblade.net/listinfo.cgi/oe-wedgeblade.net
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On Jun 17, 2019, at 1:37 AM, Gail West via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
Dear Nancy, You are amazing! I always breathe a deep sigh of relief and am so grateful when dear ones make it through the health care systems successfully, after hearing so many horror stories about some of the shortcomings! Know that you and your caregivers are in our hearts and prayers as you move forward on your healing journey. Much love to you all. Gail and Dick
On Mon, Jun 17, 2019 at 3:20 AM Nancy Lanphear via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote: Dear Friends, Here I am on a lovely, cool Sunday morning after 30 minutes in a very weedy patch of garden. My energy following surgery 13 days ago is limited so 30 minutes was enough. The surgery went well, the tumor was encapsulated and removed along with the kidney and ureter. No pain and little discomfort which was minimal with ibuprofen, no heavy drugs after the surgery. So I'm on a healing path with no chemo or radiation, only observation. every 6 months for a while. My elder son Bob is with me taking his special "Mom Care" time, each of my 3 adult children have been great caregivers, times to share old an new stories. Of course, my community neighbors step in to fill the gaps til now when I can do most of the own personal care. Pacing is a hard thing to learn? " I could just do this one thing more" is easy to say, right? The Rite of Passage Journeys programs are in full swing for the summer. You might be interested in their new website to be found at "Rite of Passage Journeys.Org". We welcomed back the first program of the season, the Leadership Intensive that is training youth mentors from across the country. The experiences of the trainers are always wonder-filled and deep, so good to sit in circle with them as they shared the wonder and the difficult challenges they've faced and continue to face in an uncharted future. Working with youth brought them together and created a 2 week community, one they will hold forever. As they came together in a community hug, I could tell none of them were ready to let go. Of course, by evening, the group had already dispersed as reality presented itself. Being held as an significant elder in this group and others makes my aging heart soar! Showing up with an open heart and mind along with hugs is what they ask of me. What more could I ask for? I having a great time connecting with John Burbidge, reading chapters of a possible book. His experiences are phenomenal, his writing terrific! I'm reminded again what a common name John seems to be when born in Australia. I met only 5 Johns my first week there back in 2014. And such sweet gentle, kind souls! My grand son Noah and fiance Carla will be here soon. I'll close by hoping you are finding joy 🦋 in each day as well as the challenges that life brings. Remember you are loved! ❤️ Nancy
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Dearest Nancy, What a living treasure you are! Thank you for your descriptive writings and I am so glad to read of your returning to good health. Journey on, journey on, Enjoy your summer days. Right now I am on a Walking on Country pilgrimage to Uluru, the Red Centre snd a sacred symbol to the First Peoples. It is a ‘Look, Learn and Listen ‘ time for us colonisers. We are amongst the First Peoples and it is very profound for about 45 of us travelling from Sydney and regional cities. Be well Nancy, Isobel and Australian colleagues. xo Sent from my iPhone
On 18 Jun 2019, at 7:42 am, Priscilla Wilson via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
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On Jun 17, 2019, at 1:37 AM, Gail West via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
Dear Nancy, You are amazing! I always breathe a deep sigh of relief and am so grateful when dear ones make it through the health care systems successfully, after hearing so many horror stories about some of the shortcomings! Know that you and your caregivers are in our hearts and prayers as you move forward on your healing journey. Much love to you all. Gail and Dick
On Mon, Jun 17, 2019 at 3:20 AM Nancy Lanphear via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote: Dear Friends, Here I am on a lovely, cool Sunday morning after 30 minutes in a very weedy patch of garden. My energy following surgery 13 days ago is limited so 30 minutes was enough. The surgery went well, the tumor was encapsulated and removed along with the kidney and ureter. No pain and little discomfort which was minimal with ibuprofen, no heavy drugs after the surgery. So I'm on a healing path with no chemo or radiation, only observation. every 6 months for a while. My elder son Bob is with me taking his special "Mom Care" time, each of my 3 adult children have been great caregivers, times to share old an new stories. Of course, my community neighbors step in to fill the gaps til now when I can do most of the own personal care. Pacing is a hard thing to learn? " I could just do this one thing more" is easy to say, right? The Rite of Passage Journeys programs are in full swing for the summer. You might be interested in their new website to be found at "Rite of Passage Journeys.Org". We welcomed back the first program of the season, the Leadership Intensive that is training youth mentors from across the country. The experiences of the trainers are always wonder-filled and deep, so good to sit in circle with them as they shared the wonder and the difficult challenges they've faced and continue to face in an uncharted future. Working with youth brought them together and created a 2 week community, one they will hold forever. As they came together in a community hug, I could tell none of them were ready to let go. Of course, by evening, the group had already dispersed as reality presented itself. Being held as an significant elder in this group and others makes my aging heart soar! Showing up with an open heart and mind along with hugs is what they ask of me. What more could I ask for? I having a great time connecting with John Burbidge, reading chapters of a possible book. His experiences are phenomenal, his writing terrific! I'm reminded again what a common name John seems to be when born in Australia. I met only 5 Johns my first week there back in 2014. And such sweet gentle, kind souls! My grand son Noah and fiance Carla will be here soon. I'll close by hoping you are finding joy 🦋 in each day as well as the challenges that life brings. Remember you are loved! ❤️ Nancy
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Nancy, I send OE emails to my "Social" tab and don't read them regularly. I found this while browsing past emails last night. I don't know the background of this email, but it seems clear that you had kidney cancer. I'm so glad to hear your operation went well and I hope that's the end of this! It's nice to hear of your adult children. They have done so well and they are so loving. You and Fred always bring a smile to my face. It's so good to hear about the lovely life you lead in Songaia. BTW, my children, Nathan and Brendan are doing well. Both are married and have children and live in Denver near Joy. Joy's husband has dimentia which is hard on her, but she is the trooper she always was. I have been staying with her when I visit in Denver as my sons' houses are small and full. A friendship with one you were so close to always feels strange and at the same time I'm glad for the continuity. I have now been married to Sandi for 19 years and I we have a very good marriage. Love, Herman ---------- Forwarded message --------- From: Nancy Lanphear via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> Date: Sun, Jun 16, 2019 at 8:00 PM Subject: [Oe List ...] Thinking of you To: <thetelfords@gmail.com>, <d.s.white@bigpond.com>, < rjhutchinson@optusnet.com.au>, <isobeljimbish@optusnet.com.au>, < oe@lists.wedgeblade.net>, Jeanette Stanfield <jstanfield@ica-associates.ca>, John Boully <johnboully@hotmail.com>, <mboakley@esc.net.au> Cc: Nancy Lanphear <nancylanphear@gmail.com> Dear Friends, Here I am on a lovely, cool Sunday morning after 30 minutes in a very weedy patch of garden. My energy following surgery 13 days ago is limited so 30 minutes was enough. The surgery went well, the tumor was encapsulated and removed along with the kidney and ureter. No pain and little discomfort which was minimal with ibuprofen, no heavy drugs after the surgery. So I'm on a healing path with no chemo or radiation, only observation. every 6 months for a while. My elder son Bob is with me taking his special "Mom Care" time, each of my 3 adult children have been great caregivers, times to share old an new stories. Of course, my community neighbors step in to fill the gaps til now when I can do most of the own personal care. Pacing is a hard thing to learn? " I could just do this one thing more" is easy to say, right? The Rite of Passage Journeys programs are in full swing for the summer. You might be interested in their new website to be found at "Rite of Passage Journeys.Org". We welcomed back the first program of the season, the Leadership Intensive that is training youth mentors from across the country. The experiences of the trainers are always wonder-filled and deep, so good to sit in circle with them as they shared the wonder and the difficult challenges they've faced and continue to face in an uncharted future. Working with youth brought them together and created a 2 week community, one they will hold forever. As they came together in a community hug, I could tell none of them were ready to let go. Of course, by evening, the group had already dispersed as reality presented itself. Being held as an significant elder in this group and others makes my aging heart soar! Showing up with an open heart and mind along with hugs is what they ask of me. What more could I ask for? I having a great time connecting with John Burbidge, reading chapters of a possible book. His experiences are phenomenal, his writing terrific! I'm reminded again what a common name John seems to be when born in Australia. I met only 5 Johns my first week there back in 2014. And such sweet gentle, kind souls! My grand son Noah and fiance Carla will be here soon. I'll close by hoping you are finding joy 🦋 in each day as well as the challenges that life brings. Remember you are loved! ❤️ Nancy _______________________________________________ OE mailing list OE@lists.wedgeblade.net http://lists.wedgeblade.net/listinfo.cgi/oe-wedgeblade.net -- __________________________________________________ Herman F. Greene 2516 Winningham Road Chapel Hill, NC 27516 919-942-4358 (ph & fax) hfgreenenc@gmail.com
Dear Herman and other friends. Thanks for your greeting and well wishes. I did have a kidney removed in June but the report is good. The tumor was encapsulated and removed. Observation every 6 months is the only follow up, no chemo or radiation. I’m grateful for the results and for the reminder that “Letting go” is part of life and we notice it especially as we age. Love to all, Nancy
On Aug 14, 2019, at 6:29 AM, Herman Greene via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
Nancy,
I send OE emails to my "Social" tab and don't read them regularly. I found this while browsing past emails last night. I don't know the background of this email, but it seems clear that you had kidney cancer. I'm so glad to hear your operation went well and I hope that's the end of this! It's nice to hear of your adult children. They have done so well and they are so loving.
You and Fred always bring a smile to my face. It's so good to hear about the lovely life you lead in Songaia.
BTW, my children, Nathan and Brendan are doing well. Both are married and have children and live in Denver near Joy. Joy's husband has dimentia which is hard on her, but she is the trooper she always was. I have been staying with her when I visit in Denver as my sons' houses are small and full. A friendship with one you were so close to always feels strange and at the same time I'm glad for the continuity. I have now been married to Sandi for 19 years and I we have a very good marriage.
Love,
Herman
---------- Forwarded message --------- From: Nancy Lanphear via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> Date: Sun, Jun 16, 2019 at 8:00 PM Subject: [Oe List ...] Thinking of you To: <thetelfords@gmail.com>, <d.s.white@bigpond.com>, <rjhutchinson@optusnet.com.au>, <isobeljimbish@optusnet.com.au>, <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net>, Jeanette Stanfield <jstanfield@ica-associates.ca>, John Boully <johnboully@hotmail.com>, <mboakley@esc.net.au> Cc: Nancy Lanphear <nancylanphear@gmail.com>
Dear Friends, Here I am on a lovely, cool Sunday morning after 30 minutes in a very weedy patch of garden. My energy following surgery 13 days ago is limited so 30 minutes was enough. The surgery went well, the tumor was encapsulated and removed along with the kidney and ureter. No pain and little discomfort which was minimal with ibuprofen, no heavy drugs after the surgery. So I'm on a healing path with no chemo or radiation, only observation. every 6 months for a while. My elder son Bob is with me taking his special "Mom Care" time, each of my 3 adult children have been great caregivers, times to share old an new stories. Of course, my community neighbors step in to fill the gaps til now when I can do most of the own personal care. Pacing is a hard thing to learn? " I could just do this one thing more" is easy to say, right? The Rite of Passage Journeys programs are in full swing for the summer. You might be interested in their new website to be found at "Rite of Passage Journeys.Org". We welcomed back the first program of the season, the Leadership Intensive that is training youth mentors from across the country. The experiences of the trainers are always wonder-filled and deep, so good to sit in circle with them as they shared the wonder and the difficult challenges they've faced and continue to face in an uncharted future. Working with youth brought them together and created a 2 week community, one they will hold forever. As they came together in a community hug, I could tell none of them were ready to let go. Of course, by evening, the group had already dispersed as reality presented itself. Being held as an significant elder in this group and others makes my aging heart soar! Showing up with an open heart and mind along with hugs is what they ask of me. What more could I ask for? I having a great time connecting with John Burbidge, reading chapters of a possible book. His experiences are phenomenal, his writing terrific! I'm reminded again what a common name John seems to be when born in Australia. I met only 5 Johns my first week there back in 2014. And such sweet gentle, kind souls! My grand son Noah and fiance Carla will be here soon. I'll close by hoping you are finding joy 🦋 in each day as well as the challenges that life brings. Remember you are loved! ❤️ Nancy
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nancy we send our love from Queensland - in the city of Townsville. We ar glad to read your news. Take care Love Elaine and John On Thu, Aug 15, 2019 at 5:51 AM Nancy Lanphear via OE < oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
Dear Herman and other friends. Thanks for your greeting and well wishes. I did have a kidney removed in June but the report is good. The tumor was encapsulated and removed. Observation every 6 months is the only follow up, no chemo or radiation. I’m grateful for the results and for the reminder that “Letting go” is part of life and we notice it especially as we age. Love to all, Nancy
On Aug 14, 2019, at 6:29 AM, Herman Greene via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
Nancy,
I send OE emails to my "Social" tab and don't read them regularly. I found this while browsing past emails last night. I don't know the background of this email, but it seems clear that you had kidney cancer. I'm so glad to hear your operation went well and I hope that's the end of this! It's nice to hear of your adult children. They have done so well and they are so loving.
You and Fred always bring a smile to my face. It's so good to hear about the lovely life you lead in Songaia.
BTW, my children, Nathan and Brendan are doing well. Both are married and have children and live in Denver near Joy. Joy's husband has dimentia which is hard on her, but she is the trooper she always was. I have been staying with her when I visit in Denver as my sons' houses are small and full. A friendship with one you were so close to always feels strange and at the same time I'm glad for the continuity. I have now been married to Sandi for 19 years and I we have a very good marriage.
Love,
Herman
---------- Forwarded message --------- From: Nancy Lanphear via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> Date: Sun, Jun 16, 2019 at 8:00 PM Subject: [Oe List ...] Thinking of you To: <thetelfords@gmail.com>, <d.s.white@bigpond.com>, < rjhutchinson@optusnet.com.au>, <isobeljimbish@optusnet.com.au>, < oe@lists.wedgeblade.net>, Jeanette Stanfield <jstanfield@ica-associates.ca>, John Boully <johnboully@hotmail.com>, <mboakley@esc.net.au> Cc: Nancy Lanphear <nancylanphear@gmail.com>
Dear Friends, Here I am on a lovely, cool Sunday morning after 30 minutes in a very weedy patch of garden. My energy following surgery 13 days ago is limited so 30 minutes was enough. The surgery went well, the tumor was encapsulated and removed along with the kidney and ureter. No pain and little discomfort which was minimal with ibuprofen, no heavy drugs after the surgery. So I'm on a healing path with no chemo or radiation, only observation. every 6 months for a while. My elder son Bob is with me taking his special "Mom Care" time, each of my 3 adult children have been great caregivers, times to share old an new stories. Of course, my community neighbors step in to fill the gaps til now when I can do most of the own personal care. Pacing is a hard thing to learn? " I could just do this one thing more" is easy to say, right? The Rite of Passage Journeys programs are in full swing for the summer. You might be interested in their new website to be found at "Rite of Passage Journeys.Org". We welcomed back the first program of the season, the Leadership Intensive that is training youth mentors from across the country. The experiences of the trainers are always wonder-filled and deep, so good to sit in circle with them as they shared the wonder and the difficult challenges they've faced and continue to face in an uncharted future. Working with youth brought them together and created a 2 week community, one they will hold forever. As they came together in a community hug, I could tell none of them were ready to let go. Of course, by evening, the group had already dispersed as reality presented itself. Being held as an significant elder in this group and others makes my aging heart soar! Showing up with an open heart and mind along with hugs is what they ask of me. What more could I ask for? I having a great time connecting with John Burbidge, reading chapters of a possible book. His experiences are phenomenal, his writing terrific! I'm reminded again what a common name John seems to be when born in Australia. I met only 5 Johns my first week there back in 2014. And such sweet gentle, kind souls! My grand son Noah and fiance Carla will be here soon. I'll close by hoping you are finding joy 🦋 in each day as well as the challenges that life brings. Remember you are loved! ❤️ Nancy
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Dawn Collins -
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Nancy Lanphear -
Priscilla Wilson -
the telfords