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<div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false">I don't know if this is true for everyone but in the early days of my Order experience, we were told "We are colleagues. We are not friends." Well, I am here to confess to you all, I have friends and I don't know who I would be without them. David Rebstock and Sandra Rafos were friends and I miss them already. Frank Knutson and I were many things to each other over many years and he taught me how to forgive. I am always grateful when Jim waxes eloquent as he did for us here because I can feel deeply his words.</div><div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false"><br></div><div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false">Journey on.</div><div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false"><br></div><div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false">Joan Knutson</div><div><br></div>
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On Sunday, November 19, 2023 at 06:34:00 AM MST, James Wiegel via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
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<div><div id="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297"><div>I love the line, "<span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">despite their conventional appearance" as we say farewell to Ann. I can remember looking over at Ann and Rob and feeling reassured that "all this" was not just a crazy dream . . .</span><div><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br clear="none"></span><div><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">Back in the day, I recall an article, I think in TIME magazine, called something like "There Are Saints Among Us". -- there may have been a little card, "The Saint"-- book mark sized -- a listing of qualities . . . Little did I know, right there only a few feet away . . . Ann, Sandy, Elaine . . . And the list goes on -- and not just solitary individuals with an aura of holiness, but Ann and Rob, Sandy and Bob, Elaine and John -- the list goes on -- being a presence in the midst of everything -- taking on responsibilities, molding family and children, washing dishes . . . Those memories would be enough and then also listen to those intervening years and how their care went on and on . . . Not characters from a book, people I / we have known, stood beside, sat beside, talked with, </span></div><div><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br clear="none"></span></div><div><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">Makes me want to sing . . .<br clear="none"></span><br clear="none"><div dir="ltr"><span style="font-size:13pt;">Jim Wiegel</span><br clear="none"><div>
<p class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297p1"><span class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297s1">“We are all time travelers journeying into the future. But let us make that future a place we want to visit. “ </span><span style="font-size: 13pt;">Stephen Hawking</span></p></div></div><div dir="ltr"><div id="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297yqtfd80605" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297yqt2640213346"><br clear="none"><blockquote type="cite">On Nov 18, 2023, at 9:11 PM, RichardandMariaMaguire via OE <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:<br clear="none"><br clear="none"></blockquote></div></div><div id="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297yqtfd62157" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297yqt2640213346"><blockquote type="cite"><div dir="ltr">
</div></blockquote></div></div></div></div><div id="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297yqtfd39998" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297yqt2640213346"><div><p style="margin-bottom:4.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU">Dear
Colleagues,</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom:4.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU">Family,
friends and all of us in ICA Australia would like to let you
know of the death of Ann Stuart Duffy (nee Dunlop) on 9th
November 2023, shortly after her 90th birthday, in Sanctuary
Point (South Coast NSW).</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom:4.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU">Born
on 26 October 1933 in the Sydney suburb of Cronulla by the
ocean, Ann was an active member of her local church and as she
grew, looked for new ways to put her beliefs into action. As Ann
ventured into challenges posed by a post-war world, she was
joined by Rob who shared her conviction. In 1956 they were
married and together, despite their conventional appearance,
continued to look for meaningful ways to act as people of faith
in their local congregations.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom:4.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU">A
dynamic team in work and in life, Ann and Rob listened to the
Spirit and dared to heed God’s call upon their lives. They
sought to be a living demonstration of non-judgemental love and,
in 1970, joined the ICA with a mission to meaningfully share
life’s abundant possibility with people of all ages, cultural
backgrounds and circumstances, particularly the poor and
marginalised, in Australia and overseas. </span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom:4.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU">Ann
embraced the opportunities the ICA offered and undertook many
roles across the globe; from community engagement in Vogar
Canada at Lake Manitoba to Nam Wai in Hongkong to leading
planning workshops (LENS) across Asia to development circuits
along the east coast of America to “permeation” assignment in
Sydney.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom:4.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU">Ann’s
commitment to a life of faith also saw her face many deep
challenges; these included the inner conflict between being an
active part in the ICA’s global mission for human development
and her need to nurture her four children while living in
intentional community.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom:4.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU">Rob’s
death in 2016, after almost 60 years of marriage, was also a
time of deep struggle and her own deteriorating health followed.
Despite this, Ann's faith shone through and she was cared for by
her children Paul, Linda and David, daughter-in-law Brenda as
well as by her four grandsons. They all looked after her at home
until the very end.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom:4.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU">With
many people here and around the world, we give thanks for Ann’s
amazing completed life of awakening and service on behalf of all
and for our common future. <br clear="none">
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<p style="margin-bottom:4.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU">Her
memorial service will take place at the St George’s Basin
Uniting Church, 7 Meriton Street on Friday 24th November 2023 at
11:00am followed by a committal at the Shoalhaven Crematorium in
Worrigee, on Worrigee Road at 1:00pm. The committal will be
live-streamed <b><a shape="rect" href="https://murphyfamilyfunerals.com.au/tribute/details/1572/Ann-Duffy-nee-Dunlop/obituary.html#tribute-start" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>.</b></span>
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<p style="margin-bottom:6.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297PageText"><span lang="EN-AU">For
more information, including a photo of Ann and lifetream access
see the website of Murphy Family Funerals: <a shape="rect" href="https://murphyfamilyfunerals.com.au" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"><span> </span>https://murphyfamilyfunerals.com.au/tribute/details/1572/Ann-Duffy-nee-Dunlop/obituary.html#tribute-start</a>,
where you will also find the live-stream.<br clear="none">
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<p style="margin-bottom:4.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU">Donations
can be made for Bush Heritage Australia.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom:4.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU">With
admiration and gratitude,</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom:4.0pt;" class="ydp9a9670e5yiv8364267297MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU">David
Duffy and Maria Maguire<br clear="none">
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