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--></style></head><body lang=EN-US link=blue vlink="#954F72"><div class=WordSection1><p class=MsoNormal>Less we get too high and mighty (“THEY have a problem”) remember what we know now about child abuse, sexual and other wise in the Order Ecumenical, to name one dear to us. Being a family order with married folks is no surety!</p><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal>Thank you, Bill for your words.</p><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal>Mary Hampton</p><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal>Sent from <a href="https://go.microsoft.com/fwlink/?LinkId=550986">Mail</a> for Windows 10</p><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p><div style='mso-element:para-border-div;border:none;border-top:solid #E1E1E1 1.0pt;padding:3.0pt 0in 0in 0in'><p class=MsoNormal style='border:none;padding:0in'><b>From: </b><a href="mailto:oe@lists.wedgeblade.net">Bill Schlesinger via OE</a><br><b>Sent: </b>Monday, August 20, 2018 2:47 PM<br><b>To: </b><a href="mailto:oe@lists.wedgeblade.net">'Order Ecumenical Community'</a><br><b>Cc: </b><a href="mailto:w.schlesinger@pvida.net">Bill Schlesinger</a><br><b>Subject: </b>Re: [Oe List ...] Penance is required</p></div><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>One of the key Calvinist doctrines helps here - total depravity. We’re all screwed up (want evidence?). So we’d better deal with it. Dealing with it means structures that provide checks and balances, open access points for comment and protection for those of lesser authority while holding accountability for performance in a verifiable system. We didn’t do great with all of that, so I guess that makes us pretty good at figuring out ways to fix messes. But all system (human institutions – remember) are based on unbelief. There is no final fix, but there are ways forward. Question is – the willingness to take on the potential of fracturing the system in doing so.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>FWIW<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Bill Schlesinger<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Project Vida<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>3607 Rivera Avenue<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>El Paso, TX 79905<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>(915) 533-7057 ext. 207<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>www.pvida.net<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><div><div style='border:none;border-top:solid #B5C4DF 1.0pt;padding:3.0pt 0in 0in 0in'><p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma",sans-serif'>From:</span></b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma",sans-serif'> OE [mailto:oe-bounces@lists.wedgeblade.net] <b>On Behalf Of </b>Seth Longacre via OE<br><b>Sent:</b> Monday, August 20, 2018 1:40 PM<br><b>To:</b> Order Ecumenical Community<br><b>Cc:</b> Seth Longacre<br><b>Subject:</b> Re: [Oe List ...] Penance is required<o:p></o:p></span></p></div></div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif'>and not all abusive priests are pedophiles. It’s also not just a structural issue, but a theological one as well. So many seriously screwed up ideas about sex and women believed by these men which, in their minds, justify what happened, or at least leave them not responsible. (e.g. the widely held belief in Evangelical circles that it is the role of women to control men’s uncontrollable sexual urges.)<o:p></o:p></span></p><div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'> Seth T. Longacre</span><span style='font-size:12.0pt;color:black'><o:p></o:p></span></p></div><div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'> Carlsbad, CA</span><span style='font-size:12.0pt;color:black'><o:p></o:p></span></p></div><div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:12.0pt;color:black'><o:p> </o:p></span></p></div><div><p class=MsoNormal><i><span style='font-size:10.0pt;color:#1F497D'>"No one man can terrorize a whole nation unless we are all his accomplices” Edward R. Murrow</span></i><span style='font-size:12.0pt;color:black'><o:p></o:p></span></p></div><div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:12.0pt;color:black'><o:p> </o:p></span></p></div></div></div></div><div><div><div><div><div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;color:#C0504D'> </span><span style='color:#C0504D'>———-O0ooo—<br> ———–(——)—<br> ————)–-/—-<br> ————(_/-<br> —-ooo0O—-<br> —-(——)—-<br> —–\-–(–<br> ——\_)-</span><span style='font-size:12.0pt;color:black'><o:p></o:p></span></p></div><div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'> </span><span style='font-size:12.0pt;color:black'><o:p></o:p></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div><p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:12.0pt'><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif'>On Aug 20, 2018, at 12:34 , Del Morrill via OE <<a href="mailto:oe@lists.wedgeblade.net">oe@lists.wedgeblade.net</a>> wrote:<o:p></o:p></span></p></div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><div><div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif'>Unfortunately, marriage is not necessarily an answer to pedophilia. I have worked with too many clients who lived as children with pedophiliacs - fathers, grandfathers, uncles - all married!<br><br>-----Original Message-----<br>From: OE <<a href="mailto:oe-bounces@lists.wedgeblade.net">oe-bounces@lists.wedgeblade.net</a>> On Behalf Of Sarah H. Buss via OE<br>Sent: Monday, August 20, 2018 9:33 AM<br>To: <a href="mailto:oe@lists.wedgeblade.net">oe@lists.wedgeblade.net</a>; <a href="mailto:oe@wedgeblade.net">oe@wedgeblade.net</a><br>Cc: Sarah H. Buss <<a href="mailto:shbuss@mac.com">shbuss@mac.com</a>><br>Subject: [Oe List ...] Penance is required<br><br>A meditative thought:<br>If the Catholic Church is to survive, it must allow priests to marry (and women to be priests). That is it’s penance! Otherwise it will continue to be a magnet for pedophiles.<br>If victims demand it, perhaps this could be a part of their healing process. Others could join in support.<br>Whatever the Catholic Church’s response, it must be radical, structural, and more than empty words.<br>Prayers, prayers, and more prayers,<br>Sarah<br>Sent from my iPhone<br>_______________________________________________<br>OE mailing list<br><a href="mailto:OE@lists.wedgeblade.net">OE@lists.wedgeblade.net</a><br><a href="http://lists.wedgeblade.net/listinfo.cgi/oe-wedgeblade.net">http://lists.wedgeblade.net/listinfo.cgi/oe-wedgeblade.net</a><br><br>_______________________________________________<br>OE mailing list<br><a href="mailto:OE@lists.wedgeblade.net">OE@lists.wedgeblade.net</a><br><a href="http://lists.wedgeblade.net/listinfo.cgi/oe-wedgeblade.net">http://lists.wedgeblade.net/listinfo.cgi/oe-wedgeblade.net</a><o:p></o:p></span></p></div></div></div></div><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif'><o:p> </o:p></span></p></div></body></html>