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<p class="MsoNormal">Who knows where these contacts with old colleagues will lead us? This one discovered as I attempted to learn more about how Kelapa Dua was selected as a project. Connie had directed me also to Pak The, but I didn’t reach him, and now
it is too late. I will read Connie’s memoir and then donate it to the ICA library and add it to the addendum of the Chronological History of EI and ICA. <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Lynda <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size:12.0pt;color:black">From: </span></b><span style="font-size:12.0pt;color:black">Deborah Connie Reemtsma <reemtsmadc@aol.com><br>
<b>Date: </b>Saturday, March 3, 2018 at 9:27 PM<br>
<b>To: </b>Lynda Cock <Lynda860@outlook.com><br>
<b>Subject: </b>Re: Pak The & Kelapa Dua<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">I will send you a copy of
<b><i>Unspeakable Joy</i></b>: <i>a memoir</i> some time next week. It's also available as ebook and paperback on Amazon.com.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">It will take a while before the second memoir gets published. But surely I will let you know when that happens.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">It was true I was instrumental in the set up of Kelapa Dua. However I regret playing that role of a key person. But I have been forgiven. I am at peace. Because
of my current circumstances--writing my second memoir--<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">I won't be of much help to you. So I am happy you have Sherwood and Eunice Shankland who could give you all the info you want to have.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Let's keep in touch. Warm regards to John.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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From: Lynda C <Lynda860@outlook.com><br>
To: Deborah Connie Reemtsma <reemtsmadc@aol.com><br>
Sent: Sat, Mar 3, 2018 8:17 am<br>
Subject: Re: Pak The & Kelapa Dua<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:black">Connie and Tom, We thoroughly understand. We hope you’ll let us know when your book is out.
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:black">Sounds like we could already get <i>
Unspeakable Joy.</i> Where is it available? We all could use your book on aging and dying. With care and gratitude for all you did to get the projects set up. You obviously were a key person.
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size:12.0pt;color:black">From: </span></b><span style="font-size:12.0pt;color:black">Deborah Connie Reemtsma <<a href="mailto:reemtsmadc@aol.com"><span style="color:#0563C1">reemtsmadc@aol.com</span></a>><br>
<b>Date: </b>Saturday, March 3, 2018 at 7:11 AM<br>
<b>To: </b>Sherwood & Eunice Shankland <<a href="mailto:sherwoodshankland@comcast.net"><span style="color:#0563C1">sherwoodshankland@comcast.net</span></a>>, Lynda Cock <<a href="mailto:Lynda860@outlook.com"><span style="color:#0563C1">Lynda860@outlook.com</span></a>><br>
<b>Subject: </b>Pak The & Kelapa Dua</span><span style="color:black"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><a name="_MailOriginalBody"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Dear Linda and Sherwood,</span></a><span style="mso-bookmark:_MailOriginalBody"><span style="color:black"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bookmark:_MailOriginalBody"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Good to get news from you about Pak The and Kelapa Dua via Linda Cock, Sherwood. Thanks.</span></span><span style="mso-bookmark:_MailOriginalBody"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bookmark:_MailOriginalBody"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">I lost touched with Kelapa Dua and ICA Jakarta completely. </span></span><span style="mso-bookmark:_MailOriginalBody"><span style="color:black"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bookmark:_MailOriginalBody"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Since I left Indonesia in 1977 I have taken another path. Now at 86 I am deeply involved with writing my second memoir.
In <i>Unspeakable Joy</i> I mentioned briefly about what Kelapa Dua has meant to me. The second one is about 'aging and dying'. I'm not sure what I finally will call it. Currently I call it <i>Ecstatic Love.
</i>I am devoting the rest of my life<i> </i>to get it done. In order to do this I must let go of other</span></span><span style="mso-bookmark:_MailOriginalBody"><span style="color:black"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="mso-bookmark:_MailOriginalBody"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Warm regards, Connie<br>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bookmark:_MailOriginalBody"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Deborah Connie Reemtsma<br>
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