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<div class="MsoNormal">My brother once referred to one of my columns on our mother
as a "pack of lies". We were
not at the time in the best of terms so I dismissed his comments as expressing
hidden hostilities until another brother essentially said the same thing. Conversant
with the wisdom of the Brad Blanton's <i>Radical
Honesty </i>that sees all humans trained to lie, or, the popular spirited
atheist Sam Harris' write-up on <i>Lying,</i>
that came as a wake-up call on the level of knowledge I thought I was very
careful about in my writings<i>.</i></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">I tried to understand the import of words I used. "Lies" in my vocab results from
attempts to deceive but there I do use metaphors. Perhaps, I just use too much of it! Not a conscious liar nor deceiver, I am, however,
clear that my brothers have seen something that I don't. (Would be helpful if they go into details!)</div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">An additional possible view is that my brothers do not see "truth"
from what might be fuzzy facts of metaphors, analogies and similes. In the spectrum of knowledge, I classify four
types of knowing (like all typology, this serves the mind more than clarity on
knowledge): the indicative (fact), subjunctive (sentiment), cognitive
(discursive), and imperative (deed). The
adage "Truth is in the pudding" reflects the understanding that it is
the deed that is the done deal.</div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">The worldwide network of the Institute of Cultural uses the
O.R.I.D. formula in imaginal education.
In their technology of participation, the letters stand for:
O=objective, R=reflective, I=interpretive, and D=decisional. </div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">There is nothing esoteric about this scheme, following
stimuli that the brainstem receives as sense experience is registered, with
emotional expressions processed in the middle brain, cognitive functions on the
outer brain, and the whole cranium along with the heart, bile, kidney, stomach,
liver and gut colloquially determining the course of action.</div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">Science introduced quantifiable terms at the objective
level, measureable within a spectrum. Colleges
are organized according to disciplines to determine specific fields of
knowledge. The widely used metaphor is
that of sight: tell me what you see, draw me a picture. The sense experiences of touch (skin), sound
(ear), smell (nose), and taste (mouth) are the other proper subjects of
science. Dominant biology and ecology are
sensual, cuisine is a universally popular folk art, scents are on the first
floor of department stores.</div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">Internal responses are of two kinds: the emotional and
intellectual. They are not verifiable
but can be shared. For sure, one can use
such terms as real or authentic, but those are judgments of the onlooker. "I know how you feel" is empathy,
not accurate sense knowledge. Psychology
is our science on interpersonal and human relations, with the other side of the
coin sociology, the development, structure, and functioning of society.</div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">Symbol, picture, image, and emblem used in simile, allegory,
idiom and parable express emotions.
Intensity of passion measures the quality of response. Looking at how others respond, identifying
similarities and contrasts, likeness and dissonance, parallels and
contradictions and discussing the same with others in words, numbers and
gestures, constitute the activity of comparing and arriving at social significance
and meaning. </div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">When EU used "sanctions as strategy" to pressure
Russia, a means at a negotiating advantage, Russia came back to suggest that it
will take first strike a Russian option, including the nuclear one. I am
hopeful the rhetoric stays at the level of verbal threat without proceeding to
the scary level of behavior. </div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">George II Bush sent troops to Iraq on the notion that preemptive
military offense is the best defense of national security post-911. Obama sets his cross sights on the renegade
Islamic State and, not surprisingly, receives the same criticism he levels
against Russia of violating sovereign integrity <i>sans</i> consent of the sitting executive when he leers at Syria!</div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">Ethics point to behavior where consensus is possible. Two service providers for the autism community
have one saying, "vaccines saved a lot of lives" and the other,
"vaccines can cause inflammation of the brain." I see them both as being defensibly
truthful. Consensus is not in facts,
psychological affirmations, and sociological verities, though sharing can lead
to it. It is in conduct that consensus
is possible. </div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">The question is not whether we sense, feel, or think similarly;
the issue is whether we are headed in the same direction, behave in tandem. If a question asks for a "yes", or
"no" answer, it is a question of what to do and how to act, rather
than an agreement on feelings and meanings.
My brothers and I might differ, and may not see similar truths from the
same metaphors but it does not mean anyone is lying!</div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">I often want to scream at friends who empathetically say,
"I understand", when they possibly couldn't, but folks do express
different perspectives and views, and for that, I am grateful. </div>
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