[Oe List ...] Parker J Palmer's Standing in the Tragic Gap

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On Mon Feb 17 11:32:01 MST 2025 Paula Philbrook via OE wrote:
Kevin,
Thank you for sharing Parker’s work. His book, Healing the Heart of Democracy was helpful to me as I canvassed & phone banked in Sept & Oct.

Parker’s Center has several remote & in person courses centered around the “Courage to Lead”.

https://couragerenewal.org/?s=Courage+to+lead

He collaborates with a singer/songwriter, Carrie Newcomer. I have adopted her song, “Room at the Table”. As my anthem.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=92OM5bdQ4N4

With Rebellious Hope,

Paula

Personal Mission Statement: I nurture love, peace & harmony in every situation for my caring family, disempowered communities, and our precious planet.

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> Thank you for sharing this video of Palmer's with us. This is indeed talking about the social pioneer and the transestablishment style. I will share it with some of the Courage to Lead guides.
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> This past week I facilitated the annual Senior Leadership Team retreat (a planning session in reality) for the UN Economic Commission for Africa. I have been facilitating and training various teams in this institution for 7-8 years now and finally got the opportunity to facilitate the senior most team. Unlike with the counterpart commission for Asia Pacific where I started with the senior team, I had to build up to this opportunity. My equivalent of the Ronin story from the old LENS programs is Parker J Palmer’s writings (and short videos), particularly his piece (attached) on “Finding your Soul” from his book “ Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation”. I especially like his Quaker metaphor for a Power Point – the Mobius Strip. I pause reading and demonstrate at this point. As with previous groups, individuals in this senior leadership group wanted to have copies of the reading.
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> > I agree with what Randy, Ken and Dharmalingam say to a great extent, and would like to add something. I believe that most if not all of the people on this list are in great pain about what is going on now and what has been going on for past many decades and even centuries that have led up to the current situation. I know for sure that we have been working for decades to support and entirely new approach to society, but in spite of our efforts and those of millions of others, the powerful close ranks and push forward. We are not alone in having done a lot and also not alone in feeling the pain.
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> > Yes it is so painful that even though the consequences of "anticipatory obedience" are well known, not least though the events around the Nazi government, that many tend to still do the same probably out of fear of consequences for themselves as well as the pain of having to face up to what's going on and all this again in spite of the dedicated efforts of our selves and so many.
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> > Maria and I have been quite grateful to have discovered and using the insights and meditations of Self-Compassion as developed by Kristin Neff and many others. As I listen to what she says, it is really a practical application of what we have said about the Christ Word, especially, You are accepted, the past is approved, the future is open. This is not about retreat into yourself, but empowering and supporting yourself and others. If this approach is new to you as it was to us, you can learn more at
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> > > 1. Re: [Dialogue] Masha Gessen article on the dangers of
> > > "anticipatory obedience" (Dharmalingam Vinasithamby)
> > > 2. West condones genocide (Ken Fisher)
> > > 3. Re: Masha Gessen article on the dangers of "anticipatory
> > > obedience" (RICHARD HOWIE)
> > > 4. Re: West condones genocide (Randy Williams)
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> > > Date: Sun, 9 Feb 2025 01:46:26 +0000 (UTC)
> > > From: Dharmalingam Vinasithamby
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> > > In his op-ed on the dangers of "anticipatory obedience", Masha Gessen presents ?The Chilling Consequences of Going Along With Trump? as a looming threat. Some may see this article as timely and relevant but I see it as part of Western media?s continuing effort to keep Americans in their bubble. From my possibly recalcitrant point of view from the other side of the world, the Americans are no strangers to anticipatory obedience. Most of them have confronted ?The Chilling Consequences of Going Along With Biden? without a cringe. After electing a warmonger as President who conspired with Netanyahu to make the US a partner in genocide, how much more trying would MAGA be? As long as Americans wail about Trump leading them without acknowledging what has been done in their name over the last four years, they will remain in their bubble while the world looks on with horror.?
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> > > Hi Folks,Masha Gessen article on the dangers of "anticipatory obedience". .
> > > .Ellie? (mailto:.Ellie?elliestock at aol.com)
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> > > This op-ed in The NY Times calls on us not to obey in advance:?
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> > > https://www.nytimes.com/2025/02/08/opinion/trump-power-surrender.html?unlocked_article_code=1.vU4.GN6W.UhwJBG0c4Bv_&smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare
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> > > > This op-ed in The NY Times calls on us not to obey in advance:
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> > > I believe what many are saying about Trump, that his prating on and on about invasion, expansion, etc., including in Gaza, is to distract from his systemic dismantling of U.S. democracy. Trump is much more focussed on ethnic cleansing in the U.S. than in the Middle East. His talk about Gaza has the added benefit for him of reestablishing the bonds between him and Netanyahu. I thought the wry smile on Netanyahu?s face when Trump was announcing his ?vision? for Gaza was revealing. If distraction is indeed Trump?s ploy, the media, in the U.S. and internationally, have certainly taken the bait.
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