[Oe List ...] the pine box

[Nancy Lanphear]

Dear Ones,

The image of a PINE BOX seems to be emerging as a topic of another story
... and as it has,  I would offer the story of a "pine box".  As the day of
Fred's memorial service was dawning our son Bob and his son, Mason  went to
the barn here at Songaia where all reusable and some not so, are kept. Much
of the salvaged material was Fred's doing ... "it might come in handy one
day" ... Fred's body was cremated so it was his ashes were available for
the ceremony.

However, it seemed appropriate for a man whose whole life had been one of
simplicity and frugality to have the image of the pine box as a means of
burial.

Bob and Mason built the burial box with several pieces of wood that they
found ... they fashioned it with love, a bit of sanding so it would be
smooth and brought it into the house just before the memorial service.
Yes, yet another ritual was immediate  ..... each of the family members
decided what objects Grandpa Fred needed to take with him .... a piece of
lichen (Bruce) , a Kenyan statue (Bob) ,his wedding and community (silver)
rings (Nancy), a piece of blue cloth (Nancy), a puzzle piece (Sandy).
There were several other items the strangest of all was a piece of bread
with spaghetti sauce on it - spaghetti was one of Fred's very favorite
meals.

The second anniversary of Fred's death comes very soon, 9/9 2012.  Although
he continues to be missed, quoted, remembered with his writings and
stories, songs and of course, his presence, our lives are full and good.  A
wooden owl sits high on top of the gazebo in our Songaia garden - the
gazebo was dedicated to Fred during our Festival of the Earth in May of
2010 - the owl was found and place on the roof in Fred's honor .... his
middle initial is O - for Orville.  Our community seems to find, create
and use spaces for sacredness, song and ritual at a moments notice.... it
is certainly one of our most wonderful gifts.

With love,

Nancy
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