[Oe List ...] Yes and . . .

Bishop Isobel isobeljimbish at optusnet.com.au
Sat Dec 22 12:27:15 PST 2012


Thank you Jim, and thank you Joan Chittister..


yes, my, my, my.          Thank you Joe Slicker..


Isobel Bishop.
On 23/12/2012, at 1:31 AM, James Wiegel wrote:

> Gordon and all . . .
>
> Yes, and, aren't we blessed ones . . .
>
> Born, like Gordon and others indicate,
> From such a different far off womb or culture or time
> To still feel and appreciate the warmth,
> The nurture that birthed and  growed us up
> Not sugar coating (too much) the reality
> Of what we were born into
>
> And yet to have been so blessed
> To have chosen / been chosen / launched onto
> This immense journey
> Into such a different era
> Remember The Snout?
>
> As Joe Slicker says, sometimes,
> My, my, my, my.
>
> Jim Wiegel
> Jfwiegel at yahoo.com
>
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> On Dec 18, 2012, at 21:37, Ken Fisher <hkf232 at gmail.com> wrote:
>
>>
>> Thank you, Doris.  Thank you, Gordon.
>>
>> I love my 'cowboy' hats, be they Resistol-Texan or Akubra-Australian.
>>
>> I was once a big fan of Hopalong Cassidy, Roy Rogers, the Cisco  
>> Kid, Have Gun Will Travel and The Rifleman.
>>
>> Later it was Peter Gunn!
>>
>> Time for a change.
>>
>> Ken
>>
>>
>>
>> Who would want to miss and episode?
>>
>>
>> On 2012-12-18, at 11:05 PM, Doris Hahn wrote:
>>
>> We all grew up in a gun culture if we grew up in the U.S.A. (note  
>> Gordon's manner of speaking: "It's essential if we're to have a  
>> real shot at changing the images...." Earlier this evening I  
>> watched a Newshour interview with five or six people from Newtown  
>> who were meeting to decide how to respond to this latest horror,  
>> and one of them said something about "what we are shooting  
>> for...." It's small, but it's real and deeply imbedded; maybe we  
>> could say, "symbolic."
>>
>> About 27 years ago, while I was visiting my mother, I decided to  
>> oil my old 410 shotgun (given to me by my dad on the occasion of  
>> my 11th birthday). Other family members wandered about the kitchen  
>> where I was sitting, and someone asked what I was going to do with  
>> the gun. My young nephew immediately answered, "shoot people," to  
>> which I quickly replied, "not people -- birds." My nephew  
>> responded with a pain-filled frown, "Why would you kill a bird?!"
>>
>> It was probably about 1956 that I last shot that gun. In 2004,  
>> just before moving to Indiana, I took it to a local gun shop and  
>> sold it.
>>
>> I believe the conversation has opened up again, and surely we can  
>> do our part in helping it to move along. I will be exceedingly  
>> happy if Feinstein can get her bill passed, and having the  
>> president do something radical would be helpful, but I think  
>> Gordon is right about what our job is, at least for now.
>>
>> Doris Hahn
>>
>> On Tue, Dec 18, 2012 at 4:52 AM, Gordon Harper  
>> <gharper1 at mindspring.com> wrote:
>> Since I'm part of this problem and hopelessly complicit in  
>> sustaining it, I'll start with a little confession.  Like many of  
>> us, I grew up in a gun culture, in my case as a Wisconsin farm  
>> boy.  I loved the various rifles and handguns I accumulated over  
>> those early years, and I continued to sharpen my target shooting  
>> through college and graduate school and even as a young professor  
>> (never really had the heart for hunting).  I was (full disclosure)  
>> a member of the NRA starting in high school, so that I could get  
>> my cases of 22 ammo for a pittance.  (I dropped my membership  
>> while in college, when the organization started to morph into the  
>> right wing entity that we see today.)
>>
>> When our family joined the symbolic order and moved to the West  
>> Side, I got rid of everything except for a special treasure, my  
>> Ruger Single Six (replica Colt six-gun) with its beautiful  
>> rosewood grips and fancy Mexican fast draw holster.  Lane Erskine  
>> and I used to enjoy sharing our fascination with our handguns'  
>> workmanship.  Unlike Lane, who was given to packing heat as he  
>> moved about in 5th City, I kept mine unloaded and in a locked case  
>> in our room.
>>
>> After a few months, however, I became concerned that even with  
>> those safeguards, in our community, with the kids having easy  
>> access to everyone's rooms, it was too much of a risk.  With great  
>> sadness, I took my beloved revolver and holster to a gun shop in  
>> Wisconsin and sold them, thus ending my gun ownership phase.  When  
>> it came time, a few years later, to decide which of my siblings  
>> would inherit our father's firearms, I chose not to participate in  
>> the distribution.
>>
>> I start with this to make the point that what we're dealing with  
>> in this gun culture lies very deep in many of us.  I've had--and  
>> still have--a love affair with the classic American Western film.   
>> This is a tradition that exalts the single shootist, who is able  
>> to do good and make things right for others precisely because he  
>> has at least one sidearm and when necessary uses it well.
>>
>> I see myself mirrored in the fascination of young people today for  
>> all the first person shooter games, battlefield adventures and  
>> standing one's ground against those hordes of attacking vampires.   
>> It's a manifestation of our special culture as Americans, with our  
>> frontier tradition and mythology.  Which in turn is an aspect of  
>> what we sometimes refer to as the concept of American exceptionalism.
>>
>> To deal seriously with gun violence, it seems to me, is to take on  
>> the challenge of shifting these profoundly rooted national and  
>> personal images and stories of who we are.  They are so much a  
>> part of us that we hardly ever feel the need to talk about them-- 
>> they're simply assumed, taken for granted as part of the common  
>> ground we share as Americans.
>>
>> We all grieve when events like those of this past week occur, and  
>> we feel personal shock and pain when one of them hits close to  
>> home.  At the same time, at some deep level we also find our way  
>> to accepting these occurrences as the tragic but necessary side  
>> effects of our special nature as a frontier people and the unique  
>> role of our nation in the world.
>>
>> It's like the collateral war damage to innocent people that we've  
>> accustomed ourselves to living with.  We lament it, and we truly  
>> want to keep it to the bare minimum, but we also feel that our  
>> historical role requires our paying this cost (a bit of White  
>> Man's Burden, redivivus).  Theologically, there's a strong  
>> connection here with the myth of redemptive violence, which  
>> provides a religious rationale for many among us to accept the way  
>> things are and for at least part of the deep resistance we  
>> encounter to changing the gun laws.
>>
>> I suspect that we will now begin to see some modest changes in  
>> access to semi-automatic weapons, some improvements in preventing,  
>> spotting and caring for mental illness, maybe even more support  
>> for our educational systems.  I'm hoping it's also a point in time  
>> where we will see, in various formats and venues, the start of the  
>> conversation about our national identity and values that we very  
>> much need to have.
>>
>> What I find myself looking for are ways to engage our neighbors  
>> and ourselves in surfacing and exploring together these largely  
>> unquestioned images and stories that so powerfully shape our  
>> behavior.  What is really special or exceptional about America-- 
>> the good, the bad and the ugly--relative to what is special and  
>> exceptional about any other nation and people?   How are we to  
>> understand that exceptionalism, and what do we do with it in  
>> today's world?
>>
>> Some of us might like to get rid of the whole idea of  
>> exceptionalism, but I think in this country, it's there, and we  
>> have to engage it.  Doing so, it seems to me, is key to that long  
>> range and indirect strategy we've been talking about in this  
>> conversation.  It's essential if we're to have a real shot at  
>> changing the images from which we continue to act and from which  
>> we and others continue to suffer.
>>
>> Engaging these conversations, I'm afraid, means welcoming and  
>> listening deeply to those with whom we strongly disagree--sharing  
>> and discussing together what we think the times call us to  
>> preserve in our heritage, what to leave behind and what to  
>> recreate.  If it's to work, it will have to be uncomfortably  
>> inclusive, in a big tent, as the Occupy folk like to say.
>>
>> We could begin to start such conversations in our workplaces, our  
>> churches, our book groups, our community meetings, at the pub or  
>> coffee shop, over dinner with friends, on line, using all these  
>> wonderful social media tools.  It's something each of us could  
>> tackle, if we chose to, without much of an organizational  
>> structure.  Maybe down the road at some point, . . . .
>>
>> Is this a tactic--and a conversation--we want to be part of?
>>
>> Gordon
>>
>>
>>
>> On 12/17/2012 1:45 PM, jlepps at pc.jaring.my wrote:
>>> Colleagues
>>>
>>> I'd like to add one more note to this lively dialogue (which I  
>>> hope continues, and perhaps even begins to focus).
>>>
>>> It's obviously the case that a change of heart is required in  
>>> this situation. The question becomes how to make that happen, and  
>>> I'm reminded of Martin Luther Kings's response to us WASPS who  
>>> were opposing desegregation because "we need to have hearts  
>>> change to support integration." To paraphrase him, "Laws can't  
>>> make you love me, but they may prevent you from killing me."  
>>> Strict gun control may be that kind of law. And, IMHO, whatever  
>>> will prevent this sort of mass murder is worth doing. Also I've  
>>> noticed that hearts are remarkably adaptable to their external  
>>> situation.
>>>
>>> In terms of luring the tiger, the question now that she's out of  
>>> her lair (sorry Cynthia), what do we do: well perhaps something  
>>> initial like forbidding the sale of assault weapons and mass  
>>> magazines. That might be able to get some support from tigers.  
>>> After all, we endure considerable inconvenience to insure safety  
>>> on airplanes,, so perhaps the inconvenience of forbidding access  
>>> to these instruments of mass destruction might be a possible  
>>> first step.
>>>
>>> I don't believe we'll be able to change tigers into lambs, but  
>>> maybe we can help de-fang them!
>>>
>>> John
>>>
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