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<p class="MsoNormal">Debra’s very helpful suggestions reminded me that Lin Wisman who also journeyed with a stroke at a far too young age, became the editor of a stroke newsletter that may also be another resource, as well as Lin’s experience. In the meantime,
we join in the many who are sending love and courage and strength for this journey of recovery. So glad you are able to go be with her and the family from time to time. Nothing like a Mother’s love! Lynda and John. <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size:12.0pt;color:black">From: </span></b><span style="font-size:12.0pt;color:black">Dialogue <dialogue-bounces@lists.wedgeblade.net> on behalf of ICA Dialogue List <dialogue@lists.wedgeblade.net><br>
<b>Reply-To: </b>ICA Dialogue List <dialogue@lists.wedgeblade.net><br>
<b>Date: </b>Friday, February 14, 2020 at 8:40 PM<br>
<b>To: </b>ICA Dialogue List <dialogue@lists.wedgeblade.net>, OE List <oe@lists.wedgeblade.net><br>
<b>Cc: </b>Debra Harris <quantum1135@yahoo.com><br>
<b>Subject: </b>Re: [Dialogue] Daughter Eva's stroke recovery/surgery update<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Hi Ellie, <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">In Texas, Medicaid often offers free transportation to MD appts, PT or even for lab work etc. If she receives a disability pass from from her PCP she can have access to Metrolify and reduced eg $2 a ride for taxis or Uber/Lyft. I know
each State is different and each form of Medicaid can vary (State by State & also depending on the Medicaid provider eg United Health vs Amerigroup etc). She may also qualify for a case manager or ombudsman via her Medicaid provider. <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"> An appt with the hospital MSW Social Worker is really important, even if it can be done pre surgery to prepare for further PT OT etc on the other side of discharge. MSW assistance can like gold in making phone calls on her behalf, cutting
through red tape or other delays- as possible etc. Also anMD or home health agency order for MSW assistance once she returns home is also something to request, they can help with temporary financial assistance, rent payment etc at times. (I’m a former home
health nurse yet it’s been a number of years since I’ve been in the field so some of my info is likely outdated. Setting up a care network with friends and coworkers can also be s boon. Often many of us are waiting for specific way to help. Does she have a
faith community- they also can be a huge resource if so... <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Blessings and healing energy to Eva!! Our brains are amazing at being able to rewire and make new synapses (pliability!). There are “Brain Gym” type exercises that are really helpful, however repetition and perseverance are also the mainstay
in reconnecting and rehabilitating the mind-body (spirit) abilities. Encouragement and being around things she loves (even if she can ‘volunteer’ where she was working before may help- if it is possible. <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Sincerely,<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="yahoo-quoted-begin" style="margin-top:0in"><span style="font-size:11.5pt;color:#715FFA">On Friday, February 14, 2020, 5:41 PM, Dharmalingam Vinasithamby via Dialogue <dialogue@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Verdana",sans-serif">Good to hear this news about Eva's progress. I hope the surgery on the 19th goes well and gives a boost to her continued healing. Wish you courage as you work on helping her
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Helvetica Neue";color:#26282A">On Saturday, 15 February 2020, 04:48:42 am GMT+8, Ellie Stock via Dialogue <dialogue@lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">So, here's the latest update on our daughter Eva, as she continues to recover from her 12/30/19 stroke that paralyzed her left side--some good news, and I hope it
holds... (For some this is new, for others a recap.).<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">The cause of her stroke was a 99% blockage of her right carotid artery. Surgery (endarterectomy) was scheduled to unblock that artery in order to prevent future
strokes. After 3 postponements of her surgery due to insurance issues, Eva found out that Medicaid approved her application, so she is now covered by Medicaid from January 1 (not the first two days--Dec 30,31--ambulance, ICU and 30+tests)--how much that covers,
I don't know.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Her surgery is now scheduled for Wednesday, February 19. We are hoping there is not another change... Post-surgery, she will be in ICU for a day or two and then
come home for a 4-6 weeks recovery time.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">In the meantime she continues to make good progress with therapy exercises at home, regaining her strength and mobility. Walking is good, and balance is much improved.
Arm, hand and finger use is getting better, but she still does not have feeling in her arm, hand and fingers which makes it difficult to pick up, grasp, and hold objects; feel and locate objects if she is not seeing them; and discern where objects are touching
her without looking. The healing brain is still remaking those connections. Her speech continues to improve, but she says it feels like she has marbles in her mouth when she talks. She is not yet able to drive, so someone must take her to do shopping or
errands or go to medical/therapy appointments. She still needs time during the day to rest and heal.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">She remains in good spirits; but, after all the delays, she says she is "so done with this". She is not looking forward to the surgery, but she just wants to be
completely well and mobile and return to her work as a childcare teacher. Hopefully, the surgery will enable this to happen sooner than later.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Thank you for your continuing love, thoughts, prayers, lit candles, emails, calls, and cards. We are overwhelmed and deeply grateful for your kind expressions of
support. You have helped carry Eva and all of us through these last weeks.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Some, who did not receive Eva's last name and contact info in a previous email, have asked for that, so that is below.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Many of you have also shared health or challenging situations that you are experiencing personally or with your family, so our prayers are with you as well.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">I will be heading to Pittsburgh February 18 before the surgery. My next update will be post surgery.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Happy Valentine's Day! <span style="border:solid windowtext 1.0pt;padding:0in"><img border="0" width="25" height="25" style="width:.2604in;height:.2604in" id="_x0000_i1025" src="cid:~WRD3059.jpg" alt="Image removed by sender. Heart"></span><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Grace and peace,<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">blessings and love ~<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Ellie :)<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">elliestock@aol.com <o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Eva Neszpaul<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">446 Union Avenue<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Pittsburgh, PA 15205<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">evajworks@aol.com <o:p></o:p></span></p>
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