<html><head></head><body bgcolor="#FFFFFF"><div><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">The thing is, as so many of you have said, Carol played Carol to perfection. Ellery played Ellery to perfection. With Carol, I always knew I was going to have an RS-1 encounter. With Ellery there was this way she had of tilting her head, forming sort of a smile, and I knew she was affirming whatever was going on and ready to see if anything concrete was going to emerge. I am reminded of this poem</strong></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><br></strong></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">Perfection Wasted</strong></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 30px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; "><em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">And another regrettable thing about death<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">is the ceasing of your own brand of magic,<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">which took a whole life to develop and market –<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">the quips, the witticisms, the slant<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">adjusted to a few, those loved ones nearest<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">the lip of the stage, their soft faces blanched<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">in the footlight glow, their laughter close to tears,<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">their tears confused with their diamond earrings,<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">their warm pooled breath in and out with your heartbeat,<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">their response and your performance twinned.<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">The jokes over the phone. The memories<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">packed in the rapid-access file. The whole act.<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">Who will do it again? That’s it: no one;<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">imitators and descendants aren’t the same.</em></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; ">–John Updike<br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">May 7, 1990</p><div style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 23px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); "><br></div><br>Jim Wiegel<div><a href="mailto:Jfwiegel@yahoo.com">Jfwiegel@yahoo.com</a></div><div><br></div>It may be that we live in a time of collective heartbreak ... the sense that we might not be equal to the ecological, political and economic transitions that are necessary, that our own selfishness may be writ too deeply into our genes and that the future is therefore untenable and unreachable. We do not as yet know if this is true. -- David Whyte, “Letter from the House"<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469);"><br></span><div>Partners in Participation Upcoming public course opportunities:</div><div>ToP Facilitation Methods, Sept 11-12, 2012</div><div>ToP Strategic Planning, Oct 9-10, 2012</div><div>The AZ Community of Practice meets the 1st Friday- Sept 7, 2012</div><div>Facilitation Mastery : Our Mastering the Technology of Participation program is available in Phoenix in 2012-3. Program begins on Nov 14-16, 2012 </div><div>See short video <a href="http://partnersinparticipation.com/?page_id=55">http://partnersinparticipation.com/?page_id=55</a> and website for further details.</div></div></div><div><br>On Sep 23, 2012, at 6:06, Dharmalingam Vinasithamby <<a href="mailto:dvinasithamby@yahoo.com">dvinasithamby@yahoo.com</a>> wrote:<br><br></div><div></div><blockquote type="cite"><div><table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" border="0"><tbody><tr><td valign="top" style="font: inherit;"><div>I too was hoping to see and talk with Carol and regret that I did not manage to get to Chicago in time. Gracious, cool headed and a master of indirection - that was Carol. It has been moving to read all these emails about her. We will all miss her.</div>
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<div>--- On <b>Sun, 9/23/12, DOUGLAS DRUCKENMILLER <i><<a href="mailto:dpat23@msn.com">dpat23@msn.com</a>></i></b> wrote:<br></div>
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<div dir="ltr">This is sad and a bit shocking to me. I saw her at Accelerate 77 and she was her usual funny self. So glad to have known her.
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From: <a href="mailto:m.george.walters@verizon.net">m.george.walters@verizon.net</a><br>To: <a href="mailto:dialogue@lists.wedgeblade.net">dialogue@lists.wedgeblade.net</a>; <a href="mailto:dialogue@wedgeblade.net">dialogue@wedgeblade.net</a><br>Date: Sat, 22 Sep 2012 11:45:46 -0400<br>CC: <a href="mailto:Carol.walters@yahoo.com">Carol.walters@yahoo.com</a><br>Subject: Re: [Dialogue] Carol Pierce's death<br><br>
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<p class="yiv588262014ecxMsoNormal"><span style="COLOR: #1f497d; FONT-SIZE: 11pt">Carol’s decades of constant care for all of us both structural and individual is a legacy that is embedded in our lives, even when memory may forget the details. What a blessing she continues to be as we live from that gift she is to us.</span></p></div>
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<p class="yiv588262014ecxMsoNormal"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt">From:</span></b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"> <a href="mailto:dialogue-bounces@lists.wedgeblade.net">dialogue-bounces@lists.wedgeblade.net</a> [mailto:dialogue-bounces@lists.wedgeblade.net] <b>On Behalf Of </b>David M Dunn<br><b>Sent:</b> Friday, September 21, 2012 12:39 PM<br><b>To:</b> Dialogue' Listserv<br><b>Subject:</b> [Dialogue] Carol Pierce's death</span></p></div></div>
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