[Dialogue] [Oe List ...] The Completed Life of John Telford

[Jo Nelson]

Isobel, do you know if the service will be streamed online? Many services are these days. If so, I’d like to attend online. 

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> On Jul 22, 2022, at 10:08 PM, Timothy Wegner via Dialogue <dialogue at lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
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> When Susan and I had our first overseas assignment, it was to Melbourne with John and Elaine. The time frame was something like 1973 or so.  John and I spent many, many hours together covering the state of Victoria by car, mainly raising funds for Oombulgurri. Alas, I needed cultural contexting as did nearly all Americans assigned to Australia, contexting that John patiently provided. There is an asymmetry of understanding between Australians and Americans; Australians usually had a good cultural understanding of Americans because, among with other things, Australian TV was full of American content. But Americans thought they were back home, but they were not, and completely missed how different Australian culture was from their own. 
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> John took the lead on our development calls. He explained why. The American style would be something like (I'm exaggerating for effect here, but not much) :
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> Oombulgurri is a fabulous community that moved back to their original village. After a comprehensive development plan was created, they rapidly moved to self sufficiency. Now their whole future is bright! You can contribute support for this success!
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> The Australian style would be more like:
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> It's been rough. When the Oombulgurri people tried to move back to their land, there were big setbacks. Some men got drunk and burned down some community buildings. Some people tried to plant crops but they didn't come up. Many wanted to move back off their land and go back to town. In the midst of all the difficulties there have been small victories. There have been days when a few hours of visionary story-telling might make one think there just might, just maybe, be a small opportunity for progress. Would you be able to contribute  to this effort?
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> The folks we were talking to wouldn't have believed an optimistic American-style story of miracles about to happen. But when John opened his mouth and spoke with obvious authenticity and realism about a very difficult situation with glimmers of hope, people responded. John was humble and self-depreciating, but projected an integrity of quiet strength, and a strong underlying conviction and vision that belied his modest style.
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> Susan and I deeply appreciated the time we spent with John and Elaine.
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> Tim Wegner
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>> On Fri, Jul 22, 2022 at 5:11 PM Kevin Balm via OE <oe at lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
>> Dear OE/ICA Colleagues
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>> I have the sad task of informing you of the passing of John Telford, Wednesday night Australian time. John (and Elaine) was an early member of OE/ICA in Australia and served in many ‘assignments’ in Australia and overseas since the late 60’s. Around the transition from assigned life John worked with CARE Australia in the middle-east and upon return to Australia, with Community Aid Abroad. It was around this time that I began my close association with John and Elaine. I had the honour of working with John delivering ToP facilitation training for Agriculture advisors (a role John played in an early part of his career) as well as working in Timor Leste in its post-independence years.  John and Elaine were integral members of Australia’s reconciliation movement serving on state and national task groups as well as helping develop some pioneering support materials. John remained an active member of the ICA, especially here in Australia throughout his time. For me, John most represented the power of followership in a world that overly glorifies leadership. He supported, drove and nudged into being many initiatives from the side lines.
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>> Our deepest sympathies to Elaine and Michelle, Kathy and Amanda and their families at this time.
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>> Kevin Balm
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