[Dialogue] from Cynthia Vance

[Gail West]

With deep appreciation for all of the memories and reflections.  For us it
is mainly around the pre-IERD days and LENS activities in Area Chicago when
we were in Lorimor and Kansas City, and Panchayat treks.  His spirit is
still strong among us!  Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you move
forward on your own journey.
Grace and Peace,  Dick and Gail

On Thu, Aug 16, 2018 at 8:53 AM, Doris Hahn via Dialogue <
dialogue at lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:

> Dear Cynthia,
> We so very much appreciated your letter about Bob and your last hours
> together. What a colleague he always has been! You and the other Vances are
> much in our thoughts and concern. If there is any way that we can be of
> help to you, please let us know. In the meantime, you continue to be in our
> thoughts.
> Grace and Peace,
> Doris and Charles Hahn
>
> On Wed, Aug 15, 2018 at 5:30 AM, Cynthia Vance via Dialogue <
> dialogue at lists.wedgeblade.net> wrote:
>
>> Dear Friends and Colleagues,
>>
>> My dear Bob passed away today, Monday, August 13.
>>
>> On July 11 I enrolled him in Hospice at Home, due to his increasing
>> symptoms from (possibly) Lewy Body dementia and I cared for him since
>> then.  Last Sunday morning he awoke with extreme difficulties. The Hospice
>> nurse came and felt he probably had a 'neurological event' the Saturday
>> evening before, perhaps while sleeping.  She took him to the Venice Hospice
>> House at 6pm that night.
>>
>> I visited him 90 minutes later. He was very calm but not very responsive.
>> I shared my reflections as I showed him 4 photos -- his parents, his
>> brothers Neil and Denny, our doxies Star and Matilda and finally Bob and
>> me. I also read two poems I had written (about the dogs!) and a love letter
>> highlighting and thanking him for the special times we shared as a team in
>> our community service/civil rights efforts, followed by our strategic
>> planning consulting, and finally in our various nature adventures.  We had
>> had these discussions before and had agreed that history had given us a
>> fine ride! – and that hopefully we made the world a little better.  He
>> died peacefully 5 hours later, 1:30 am, early Monday morning.
>>
>> I’m grateful for the wonderful life and marriage we had.  I could ask for
>> no more. Our home was one of peace, love, respect, creative planning and
>> always in anticipation of our next birding or butterflying adventure.  He
>> was always kind to others and was a terrific partner in our life work
>> together!
>>
>> Many of you, our colleagues over the years, wrote letters to him or
>> telephoned him in the past 10 days.  He was so pleased to hear from you and
>> I’m grateful that you reached out to us.  You shared your appreciation of
>> his life and brought us great joy.
>>
>> My sister, Cecily, has been with me for 2 days and as an R.N. has given
>> me guidance during this journey. Other friends locally have compassionately
>> reached out to me.
>>
>> Bob has donated his brain to the University of Miami Brain Endowment Bank
>> to both confirm (or not) the diagnosis and to contribute to their research.
>> We will be spreading his ashes in our Butterfly Garden and the Gulf of
>> Mexico where he proudly completed 990 SCUBA dives to collect hundreds of
>> vertebrate fossils.
>>
>> Grace and Peace,
>>
>> Cynthia
>> facilitationfla at aol.com
>> 941-483-9165
>>
>>
>>
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