[Dialogue] Carol and Ellery and all our companions on the journey

Sun Sep 23 15:13:18 PDT 2012

I have been in quiet dialogue with these two remarkable women since Thursday and feel a real sadness and loss at their passing.  And so much gratitude.  Love to Tony, Jon and Debra, and to my old buddy Mark Pierce and Cathy, Greg and Dale.

Marsha

On Sep 23, 2012, at 4:43 PM, mhampton at att.net wrote:

> Thanks, Jim,
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> I needed that.  Thursday morning I got word of 3 deaths: Carol, Ellery and Margy here in Austin.  All venerable, women with full lives behind them and yet great losses.
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> The poem helps.
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> mary
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> From: James Wiegel <jfwiegel at yahoo.com>
> To: Colleague Dialogue <dialogue at lists.wedgeblade.net>
> Cc: Colleague Dialogue <dialogue at lists.wedgeblade.net>
> Sent: Sun, September 23, 2012 2:47:55 PM
> Subject: [Dialogue] Carol and Ellery and all our companions on the journey
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> The thing is, as so many of you have said, Carol played Carol to perfection.  Ellery played Ellery to perfection.  With Carol, I always knew I was going to have an RS-1 encounter.  With Ellery there was this way she had of tilting her head, forming sort of a smile, and I knew she was affirming whatever was going on and ready to see if anything concrete was going to emerge.  I am reminded of this poem
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> Perfection Wasted
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> And another regrettable thing about death
> is the ceasing of your own brand of magic,
> which took a whole life to develop and market –
> the quips, the witticisms, the slant
> adjusted to a few, those loved ones nearest
> the lip of the stage, their soft faces blanched
> in the footlight glow, their laughter close to tears,
> their tears confused with their diamond earrings,
> their warm pooled breath in and out with your heartbeat,
> their response and your performance twinned.
> The jokes over the phone. The memories
> packed in the rapid-access file. The whole act.
> Who will do it again? That’s it: no one;
> imitators and descendants aren’t the same.
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> –John Updike
> May 7, 1990
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> Jim Wiegel
> Jfwiegel at yahoo.com
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> On Sep 23, 2012, at 6:06, Dharmalingam Vinasithamby <dvinasithamby at yahoo.com> wrote:
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>> I too was hoping to see and talk with Carol and regret that I did not manage to get to Chicago in time.  Gracious, cool headed and a master of indirection - that was Carol. It has been moving to read all these emails about her. We will all miss her.
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>> Dharma
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>> --- On Sun, 9/23/12, DOUGLAS DRUCKENMILLER <dpat23 at msn.com> wrote:
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>> From: DOUGLAS DRUCKENMILLER <dpat23 at msn.com>
>> Subject: Re: [Dialogue] Carol Pierce's death
>> To: "dialogue at lists.wedgeblade.net" <dialogue at lists.wedgeblade.net>, dialogue at wedgeblade.net
>> Cc: carol.walters at yahoo.com
>> Date: Sunday, September 23, 2012, 4:44 AM
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>> This is sad and a bit shocking to me. I saw her at Accelerate 77 and she was her usual funny self. So glad to have known her.
>> Pat and Doug
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>> From: m.george.walters at verizon.net
>> To: dialogue at lists.wedgeblade.net; dialogue at wedgeblade.net
>> Date: Sat, 22 Sep 2012 11:45:46 -0400
>> CC: Carol.walters at yahoo.com
>> Subject: Re: [Dialogue] Carol Pierce's death
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>> Colleagues and Family;
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>> Carol’s decades of constant care for all of us both structural and individual is a legacy that is embedded in our lives, even when memory may forget the details. What a blessing she continues to be as we live from that gift she is to us.
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>> Grace and Peace
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>> George and Carol
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>> From: dialogue-bounces at lists.wedgeblade.net [mailto:dialogue-bounces at lists.wedgeblade.net] On Behalf Of David M Dunn
>> Sent: Friday, September 21, 2012 12:39 PM
>> To: Dialogue' Listserv
>> Subject: [Dialogue] Carol Pierce's death
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>> Mary Laura asked that her note about Carol's death be sent again to ensure the most inclusive outreach:
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>> Carol Pierce passed away a little before noon [Thursday, September 20, 2012] of cardio-pulmonary complications. Aimee Hilliard and Mary Laura Jones were with Carol the entire morning. Carol enjoyed the Accelerate 77 event on Saturday and loved keeping in touch with many of you and keeping track of your lives and activities.
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>> There will be a Memorial Service at the ICA GreenRise Center building on a weekend in September or October. I will post the time and date as soon as the family decides the date.
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>> Carol will be deeply missed. She was a wise and courageous mentor to many of us. I will miss her wisdom, her humor, her gracious attitude and her demonstration of living a great life in the midst of physical adversity.
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>> Mary Laura
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>> Mary Laura Jones
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>> Grants Resource Development Consultant
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>> 1454 W. Fargo Avenue
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>> Chicago, IL 60626
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>> cell: 773 636-2022
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>> mljones2022 at gmail.com
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>> via David Dunn
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